ok heres my story...ive been with 2 girls the first being the one i lost my virginity too and the second is with the girl im with now...im 20 years old..i have done anything sexually with any girl before..but me and my current girl had sex prolly like 3 weeks ago...there was a short period i didnt use a condom probably for like 5 secs..pretty much i stoped and i kept giving her oral..but today she came to my house in my room while i was sleeping and talked to me and pretty much told me she has some kinda bacterial disease..im like WTF..she NOW thinks im cheating on her...and not to mention i have never have any symptoms to some kinda STD ever..i am not cut either..so the only thing i can explain is if me and her doing it without a condom and i wasnt clean under my skin or whatnot that probably gave her and STD? the doctors said they will let her know in 2 weeks..but im still kinda shocked as i dont have any problems with my pernis...i had a friend that got it and he had all the symptoms....what gives? and another note..she was saying that she had itchyness and like secretion coming out of her vagina...so she definately has something..and im pretty positive 100% that she hasnt done it with anyone else...please respond ppl with feedback!
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Hey got a slight problem..
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It’s likely not a STD in the strict sense, especially if neither of you has any way of getting a nasty from someone else. Bacterial and fungal infections could happen from the direct contact of two clean people too, I believe, it’s afterall just a matter of whatever is living on your and her surface — everyone has a slightly different “configuration” of normal stuff on them, so if anything, such direct contact could exchange things that are harmless to one of you, but a bit of a challenge to the other.Hopefully the doc’s findings say nothing disappointing Good luck.
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yea tell me about it...she was like if its ghonneria or the "clap" sorry dont have time to spell them....she said she was gon leave me...so i hope its not the case.. :frowning:
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Originally Posted By: joshemyea tell me about it...she was like if its ghonneria or the "clap" sorry dont have time to spell them....she said she was gon leave me...so i hope its not the case.. So she wants to leave you because she gave you an STD?I do not want to generalize here, but woman have a tendency to blame others for their problems, especially in relationships (i.e its always the guys fault).So i suspect she cheated you, or had it before you met her, and now she can not face it and need someone to blame, and it all goes out over you. Sorry man, i truly feel for you, go to the dr, get some antibiotics, and find a better girl.
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ohhh no eric..SHE has some kinda disease...thing is ive only been with 2 girls..my ex which was my first...and her and she was a virgin then..but yea i know all about girls blaming shit on the guy..its allllll the time LOL..but nah im clean im positive as i have NEVER have any symptoms i have not messed with any girls and only her..i called the doctors and they said its possible of her getting a bacterial disease and not be sexually transmitted..
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Whoa, whoa, whoa...slow down and don't start jumping into conclusions.From what you said:and another note..she was saying that she had itchyness and like secretion coming out of her vaginaIt sounds like she has some sort of bacterical INFECTION, not a disease. From what she said, it's most likely a yeast infection (but I could be wrong, since that's not a whole lot to go on), which is easily treatable. You can be clean and STILL get infections from numerous of reasons, including bad hygine.With that being said, don't put the idea that she's cheating on you and vice versa in your heads. You can tell her what I said or she can wait until she gets her results.And with THAT being said... Originally Posted By: Eric IdleSo she wants to leave you because she gave you an STD?I do not want to generalize here, but woman have a tendency to blame others for their problems, especially in relationships (i.e its always the guys fault).So i suspect she cheated you, or had it before you met her, and now she can not face it and need someone to blame, and it all goes out over you. Sorry man, i truly feel for you, go to the dr, get some antibiotics, and find a better girl. I have two things to say to that:1) I do not want to generalize here, but guys have a tendency to be complete assholes, especially in relationships (i.e, he sleeps with a woman, she gets pregnant, and he denies, denies, and denies).However, since I'm not ignorant as you are, I don't believe in that bullshit.2) Don't draw conclusions on people who you don't know at all.
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Originally Posted By: joshemohhh no eric..SHE has some kinda disease...thing is ive only been with 2 girls..my ex which was my first...and her and she was a virgin then..but yea i know all about girls blaming shit on the guy..its allllll the time LOL..but nah im clean im positive as i have NEVER have any symptoms i have not messed with any girls and only her..i called the doctors and they said its possible of her getting a bacterial disease and not be sexually transmitted.. Still, go get tested, she could have (dont believe her if she says she is a virgin) something, and IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE SHOWING. Just to make sure, for yourself. Quote: 1) I do not want to generalize here, but guys have a tendency to be complete assholes, especially in relationships (i.e, he sleeps with a woman, she gets pregnant, and he denies, denies, and denies).Some self-projection, good for you.Generally, woman ARE blaming the men for "all the problems", this is not shown in men (generally), thats why i said it, it is a fact. YOU may not be like that, but the MAJORITY of woman are, im sorry if you cant face does demons, but you should be aware of it as you are a woman, and if not you, your friends should have shown similar symptoms, you know, Nothing is your fault, everyone is his fault etcetera.We have a-holes everywhere woman, so chill ok, im just talking general fact, not about YOU. OK?Kiss and make up?
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Quote:Still, go get tested, she could have (dont believe her if she says she is a virgin) something, and IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE SHOWING. Just to make sure, for yourself.You're kidding, right? You've must've missed this in the original post: Originally Posted By: joshembut me and my current girl had sex prolly like 3 weeks agoAnd also Eric Idle, did you not read a word I said? Based on what he said, she has an infection, NOT a disease. There's a difference. And you don't have to have sex in order to get one. So, please STOP trying to give the OP ideas that his relationship with his girlfriend is in trouble. You are not helping.The OP doesn't need to go get tested. Men can get a yeast infection also, but with anti-bacterial cream, it's easy to treat. Quote:Generally, woman ARE blaming the men for "all the problems", this is not shown in men (generally), thats why i said it, it is a fact.That's complete BS within BS. Do you know what a "fact" is? I'm asking you because if what you said is a "fact", PLEASE show me some proof. You can't go throw that word around so easily.Besides, why would I want to learn facts from a guy who didn't even know that there are blood veins in his penis ? Quote:YOU may not be like that, but the MAJORITY of woman are, im sorry if you cant face does demons, but you should be aware of it as you are a womanI am a woman and that is why your post pissed me off. Can you PLEASE tell me where you get these ideas from? Have YOU ever been in a relationship before? No, better yet, how MANY relationships have you been in in order for you to know "the facts"?Please learn that NOBODY, man or woman, is perfect and relationships end for endless of reasons. Reasons I'm sure that even you wouldn't understand. When you grow up, I hope you'll learn and not grow up to be sexist jackass. Quote:your friends should have shown similar symptoms, you know, Nothing is your fault, everyone is his fault etcetera.How dare you assume who you think my friends are. You don't have a damn clue who they are, so please keep your mouth shut. Quote:We have a-holes everywhere woman, so chill ok, im just talking general fact, not about YOU. OK?Please, don't you EVER call me "woman" ever again. Do you have any idea how sexist that is? And again, stop using the word "fact". Quote:Kiss and make up?Sorry, I stopped kissing boys a long time ago. I kiss men now. But make up? We'll see. I'm pretty nice when I'm not arguing.Look, I don't mean to come off rude to you or try to be condescending. You're new here and the last thing I want is to drive you away. But you have to understand that the reason why I'm pushing this is because you should open up your mind a bit and learn that nothing is set in stone.
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Your going to kill me for saying this >.<But, this reminds me of what my chemistry teacher said."Women are crazy, men are assholes". I took that one to heart.That being said why even waste your time on this? While it most likely is a bacterial issue rather then a disease... I don't think it would hurt to get checked.And its apparent that this guy is somewhat fixed in his ways. Your wasting energy on this.Never argue with an idiot they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
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Originally Posted By: Nny"Women are crazy, men are assholes". I took that one to heart.Okay, now that's a fact, lol! Just kidding, but I won't kill you for that because it proves that BOTH sexes have stereotypical faults, but it shouldn't be a permanent label on everyone. Originally Posted By: NnyWhile it most likely is a bacterial issue rather then a disease... I don't think it would hurt to get checked.True. I said he didn't need to get tested for an STD, but if he himself gets the infection, no harm in gettting it checked out. Originally Posted By: NnyAnd its apparent that this guy is somewhat fixed in his ways. Your wasting energy on this.Never argue with an idiot they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience. I appreciate that Nny. Honestly, I do. But I'm not going to leap off the edge and call this guy an idiot or hold a grudge. Like I said, I just hope he understands my point.
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Quote: I appreciate that Nny. Honestly, I do. But I'm not going to leap off the edge and call this guy an idiot or hold a grudge. Like I said, I just hope he understands my point. Crap. I was hoping you would yell, "THIS IS SPARTA" and jump at him and cleave his head off with your gleaming blade.I think it should probably be noted that If I insult someone its very easy for it to be taken out of context. I think when it comes to women/differentation between fact and opinion he is an idiot. I am not saying he is in any way inept as a person.I really need to work on the insults.. I take em too hard when I get em and let em roll off my tounge way to easy >.<
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star Quote:Still, go get tested, she could have (dont believe her if she says she is a virgin) something, and IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE SHOWING. Just to make sure, for yourself.You're kidding, right? You've must've missed this in the original post: Originally Posted By: joshembut me and my current girl had sex prolly like 3 weeks agoAnd also Eric Idle, did you not read a word I said? Based on what he said, she has an infection, NOT a disease. There's a difference. And you don't have to have sex in order to get one. So, please STOP trying to give the OP ideas that his relationship with his girlfriend is in trouble. You are not helping.The OP doesn't need to go get tested. Men can get a yeast infection also, but with anti-bacterial cream, it's easy to treat. Quote:Generally, woman ARE blaming the men for "all the problems", this is not shown in men (generally), thats why i said it, it is a fact.That's complete BS within BS. Do you know what a "fact" is? I'm asking you because if what you said is a "fact", PLEASE show me some proof. You can't go throw that word around so easily.Besides, why would I want to learn facts from a guy who didn't even know that there are blood veins in his penis ? Quote:YOU may not be like that, but the MAJORITY of woman are, im sorry if you cant face does demons, but you should be aware of it as you are a womanI am a woman and that is why your post pissed me off. Can you PLEASE tell me where you get these ideas from? Have YOU ever been in a relationship before? No, better yet, how MANY relationships have you been in in order for you to know "the facts"?Please learn that NOBODY, man or woman, is perfect and relationships end for endless of reasons. Reasons I'm sure that even you wouldn't understand. When you grow up, I hope you'll learn and not grow up to be sexist jackass. Quote:your friends should have shown similar symptoms, you know, Nothing is your fault, everyone is his fault etcetera.How dare you assume who you think my friends are. You don't have a damn clue who they are, so please keep your mouth shut. Quote:We have a-holes everywhere woman, so chill ok, im just talking general fact, not about YOU. OK?Please, don't you EVER call me "woman" ever again. Do you have any idea how sexist that is? And again, stop using the word "fact". Quote:Kiss and make up?Sorry, I stopped kissing boys a long time ago. I kiss men now. But make up? We'll see. I'm pretty nice when I'm not arguing.Look, I don't mean to come off rude to you or try to be condescending. You're new here and the last thing I want is to drive you away. But you have to understand that the reason why I'm pushing this is because you should open up your mind a bit and learn that nothing is set in stone. You have some issues woman. Perhaps its because your alone and no one wants you. You need a man to teach you how to act like a real woman.Im sorry if you cant accept fact. If you ever been to school, you would learn things like that, but perhaps you just stay at home cooking, you cant do much more. ITs OK, perhaps you are really good at it. (or perhaps even that is hard for you, im just being nice in my evaluation).In any case, if you want me to teach you, no problem, i can give you courses via PM about the world and such. We start on kindergarten level and work ourself up. I have no doubt i can educate you to atleast the level of a 15 year old man. Would you want that? Have the same logic and understanding as a man? I assume that is one of the biggest dreams you have as a woman.Just take the hand for help, and i will teach and guide you about the world and reality. Consider it a gift from me to you, as i understand you are lonely, and dont really have anyone, and a lonely woman is pretty tragic.Cheerz, I wait for your PM, i suggest you nice ask if you want me to educate you so you become a proper woman, i may be a nice guy, but i still want some respect, and woman should know their place.