Well this is sort of a long story, but bare with me.Let me start out by saying I have had sex with this girl twice, both times with a condom and she was on birth control. The first time we had sex was actually the first time i've ever had sex, so my first mistake was attempting to put the condom on backwards, I turned it around and placed it on the right way then. I attempted to wipe and pre-cum that may have gotten on the condom, but I don't even know if i had produced any at that point. While having sex that first time, I had a hard time keeping my penis completely erect, so the time when it would kind of not be erect, I would try to hold the base of the condom down. During that time I never actually ejaculated though.The second time I had sex, everything went normal, I pulled out before I ejaculated with the condom on.The first time we had sex was the beginning of June, and the 2nd time was somewhere in the beginning/ or middle of June. After the second time, she got her period about 2 days later. Her period then ended up lasting longer than it should, and she went to the doctor and apparently those pills were too strong for her. Well as of Saturday, she just finished up her pack of the old Pills that were too strong for her. This Wednesday she said she started her period but it's not the same as it usually is. She said she isn't bleeding as much, as if it's almost spotting, and she isn't really getting the normal PMS and fatigue stuff. She said her pills were the 24-day variety.Also on Saturday she took a pregnancy test, and it came out as negative. It had been over a month since we had sex. Would this of been too early to detect the pregnancy since she hadn't missed her period yet? Or do you guys think she is in the process of missing her period because it isn't the same as it usually is for her as in she isn't bleeding as much as she said she normally did.She said she has been getting sick to her stomach in the evening/night time lately, but not throwing up or anything and getting headaches. She said sometimes her breasts are kind of sore to the touch, but not all the time. I read somewhere that these COULD be side effects of birth control OR pregnancy.What do you guys think? I need some feedback PLEASE...
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Scared..need some answer a.s.a.p.
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I didn't read your whole post, but from what you said about 'wiping' pre- cum off the condom? Next time you put it on backwards, throw the condom away. It's worth it in the long run. I don't think anything happened, but there are minimal chances, and why take that chance if youre trying to use protection?
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because at the time I didn't realize it could be harmful
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Originally Posted By: camaroholic85
Also on Saturday she took a pregnancy test, and it came out as negative. It had been over a month since we had sex. Would this of been too early to detect the pregnancy since she hadn't missed her period yet? Or do you guys think she is in the process of missing her period because it isn't the same as it usually is for her as in she isn't bleeding as much as she said she normally did.
She said she has been getting sick to her stomach in the evening/night time lately, but not throwing up or anything and getting headaches. She said sometimes her breasts are kind of sore to the touch, but not all the time. I read somewhere that these COULD be side effects of birth control OR pregnancy.
Not that it really matters now, but, why the heck did she take a pregnancy test after her period? That makes no sense.Since she switched birth control, the reason why she's sick is because her body is trying to get use to the new pills. No need to panic.
However, educate yourself better in using a condom. Try practicing in your spare time. The excuse you gave is a no no.
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Ok well what I meant was, I knew pre-cum could be dangerous, I just didn't think that I had produced any at the time, so I tried to wipe it off in a feeble attempt She hasn't actually switched the new birth control yet, she just finished her old pack, and this is her 2nd pack of her life. So she's only been on birth control a total of 2 months.
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I did wear a condom both times, she wanted to have sex without one but I refused, the problem with the first time was it was my first time ever, and I was a little bit drunk, so my mistake was trying to put it on backwards..
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Hmm, well, I still stand by my theory. If the pill are indeed strong for her, then I'm betting on the pills. Is she going to switch to a new brand of pills or a different method? If these symptoms continue to the next month, she really needs to see a doctor to go on a different method.I highly doubt she's pregnant because not only did she have her period, you said you didn't ejaculate. And the second time, you pulled out with the condom.And, as long as you learn from your mistakes, you'll be fine. You'll know better next time when you use a condom.
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Thanks for all the help. You guys atleast gave me a little bit of peace of mind. Yeah, she is switching to a new type of birth control altogether starting next month. What I don't understand is why was her first period long and heavy, but then this one is light? Is that just her body adjusting or what?