Very very recently I have been placed back into a situation where sex will be forthcoming to me...I'll spare you the details of how.
There is a problem though. I am very much a virgin (at 20), and the first (and last) 2 times I tried to have sex, I just couldn't get it up, for reasons that I am baffled by.
I was most definately aroused because I was producing precum by the gallon, but I couldn't get hard! The last time I tried, I went and looked at porn briefly, and after a bit of work I finally got up, but when i returned to "the scene of the crime" I flopped again!
One of the problems could be because it's her first time too, and I think she's a bit scared of Mr Winky, because she wouldn't touch it at all, even through clothes.
The rest of the time I have trouble keeping the boners away! No problems when I'm on my own. Or when thinking about her.
So can you offer any suggestions as to how I can possibly try? This is important as me and my partner both really want it to happen, and I can't help but feel that I've disappointed her.