About desires

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Is it normal for a guy to lose interest in sex after ejaculating?

During the refractory period, yes very normal.

How about after the refractory period, does it tend to be more difficult to get aroused? At least after masturbating, I usually don't have any interest in masturbating again during the same day. Even if I try to, it usually doesn't feel the same. It's like after ejaculating, sex disappears from the thoughts.

Yep, that's pretty much the way it works for most guy, most of the time, though it doesn't necessarily mean it will work like that all the time. Depending on the stimulus and your overall horniness you may find that sometimes your ready to go again in just a few minutes.

If it takes a few minutes to go from an erection to ejaculation and after that you lose interest in sex then isn't this a possible problem in a relationship?

NoIt's like water skiing. You look forward to water skiing, you can't wait to go water skiing. Ya think about it, go over it in your mind before you do it. Then you do it. If you stay up long enough, you've had fun but you don't want to get right back up there. At least a good number of folks don't. You hurt. Your sore. Your wore out. Your enthralled but you need a little time before your wanting to get drug around again. Just because you don't want to get wet again immediately doesn't mean you'll never want to go skiing again or that you don't like it just means you got to let the urge to do it build back up. Get it?

If I may add. Women, are like that too, to an extent. Though we're multi orgasmic, when we have had our fill, we don't need it immediately. Tomorrow or the next day. Though I suppose that there are those who only want it once a week...or less...

Quote:Though I suppose that there are those who only want it once a week...or less... You're talking about women, right? lol

I think it depends on the guy.I saw a comedian joke about it once. "women can masturbate and do the whole flowers thing and get into it.. but masturbation is different for men is like 'YEH YEH YEH' they orgasm.. 'what the fuck am I doin.. I got work in an hour"I tend to agree with it..Granted there have been multiple occassions where I didn't even lose the erection after ejaculating >.<