I have a problem that is actually affecting my social life. Whenever I go swiming ( with chicks) I get boners. I have to cover them up. I dont get to have a good time because it can be quite embarasing. Actually its not just when I am swimming, its anytime I am around attractive women. Is there anything I can do to get rid of them? Would wacking to porn help, or make it worse? Any suggestions?
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Random Erections
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I guess my best suggestion is to try and focus on things other than the women or anything arousing to you. Also, I believe mentality takes a part in everything, so if you just take your mind off of the possibility that you could have an erection again, and tell yourself that you won't and believe you won't, you'll probably lower your chances of getting one. But that just works for me. Good luck!
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The bad news is that you can't get rid of random erections. They come because you are a young guy and your hormones are starting to rage through your system. The good news is that they will decrease as you get older and your body learns to adjust to them, but young guys have them all the time. It's just that your body is in the process of changing from boy to man. Congratulations. Things seem to be working as they should.
Most guys just try to hide them by the clothes they wear. Unfortunately, swimming doesn't allow that. The bathing suits that the girls are wearing probably doesn't help things either. All you can do is to try to get your mind on other than sexual things to reduce the erections.
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I'm 18 and I still get randoms all the the friggin time. Also, I just get turned on off the slightest things that I should be used to, such as Having a girl sit on my lap, and even things as small as putting my arm around my girlfriend or hugging her will sometimes make me hard. When do random boners usually start to go away?
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They gradually decline from late teens. The completely random ones go first.
