For the most stupid reason this time! Its been 10 months since my ex and I broke up and now she has a new bf. I fully expected her to move on, I'd hate for her to be alone, but I thought I'd be happy for her. Instead, I feel physically sick at the thought of her with this guy that I know nothing about. Its not a feeling of disgust or hatred, it seems to just be the strongest feeling of jealousy that I've ever experienced!Its got me feeling like absolute crap, why don't I feel happy for her? I want to be, I always expected to be, but instead I just want to curl up in a ball and die. (Any of you guys who know me, you know that I'm too lazy to actually do that :P) I just don't understand, I've had a few love interests myself and have been mildly active in getting with other people. But when she does it, I feel like this?? How fucking hypocritical is that!?!?Its just got me so pissed off and in a horrible state. The other day I snapped the head off a friend of mine for absolutely no good reason. I feel like I've really let myself down by becoming this small, petty person.
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And I'm down again...
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It seems you're not over her yet. That could be your problem.
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Oh, thats definitely my problem. I've never been able to get over any girl that I really liked. My ex, the friend that I snapped at, a girl from my old school, a girl from primary school even! Whenever I fall for a girl, I seem to get very attached.And I suppose that it doesn't help that the break-up wasn't exactly my idea...
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Well, I dunno what to tell you then. You know the problem, so you have to figure out how to solve it.You're the one htat knows most about the situation and what happened, so you're the best person to figure it out.I'm sure that if you try, you can figure out how to be happy for her, instead of being jealous.
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Hey man, Ive been down that road, and believe me, it's hard.You'll have a cry or two and get over it, I know you will. What sux is living through it. You'll be OK!
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Quote:You'll have a cry or two and get over it, I know you will. Oh I fucking wish! I can't cry, never have. Even when I try, watching a really good movie that I love and I feel it coming but nope, just doesn't happen. Never cried when anyone I knew died, close family members included. I hate it, I want to cry.
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Well there ya go.It's possible that you can't get over something because you want to cry about it so much.Why do you want to cry? You don't have to cry to feel sad/bad about something it, it's all about accepting it and moving on, really.Edit: Advice from a high person may not make sense sometimes, keep that in mind.
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I don't just wanna cry when I'm sad, I'd like to be able to cry when I'm happy or when I just feel the need to cry, as a lot of people do. I sometimes have the need to get a bit teary, yet nothing!
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So you're saying you're physically not able to cry? That sonuds like it needs to be checked out or something, I dunno
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I think a lot of us guys are in that position. We just don't have that release.
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I am physically able to cry, as a baby I'm told I cried all the time. But I just haven't been able to do it in years. Quote: I think a lot of us guys are in that position. We just don't have that release. But I really want that release, I need it. When stuff builds up in me I get angry and frustrated and I do stuff such as biting the head of my friend. I need to be able to release.