Ok i take u seen my posts about the casual sex tell me, if i was 2 do this 1 night stands and 3somes what would be the point in. There would be emotional attachments and the physical side would be VERY bad, then whats the point.Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and physically, how is that fair on her.
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Penis Pills?
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}
Ok i take u seen my posts about the casual sex tell me, if i was 2 do this 1 night stands and 3somes what would be the point in. There would be emotional attachments and the physical side would be VERY bad, then whats the point.
That's why I said for you to wait until YOU are ready to do such things. Right now, with the way you feel about yourself, that's going to make you feel a whole lot worse and quite possible ruin your relationship with your current girlfriend.Originally Posted By: {STAR}
Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and physically, how is that fair on her.
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star Originally Posted By: {STAR}Ok i take u seen my posts about the casual sex tell me, if i was 2 do this 1 night stands and 3somes what would be the point in. There would be emotional attachments and the physical side would be VERY bad, then whats the point. That's why I said for you to wait until YOU are ready to do such things. Right now, with the way you feel about yourself, that's going to make you feel a whole lot worse and quite possible ruin your relationship with your current girlfriend.But i don't think i would ever be good at it, i will always be a filure at it. Originally Posted By: {STAR}Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and physically, how is that fair on her. How is that being unfair?Sorry typo that was meant 2 be "Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and not the physical how is that fair on her, as she only gets 1 half.
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}But i don't think i would ever be good at it, i will always be a filure at it.Since when performance in bed measures your worth? You really need to work on YOU. Forget about sex and stuff for now and focus on yourself. Originally Posted By: {STAR}Sorry typo that was meant 2 be "Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and not the physical how is that fair on her, as she only gets 1 half. Again, right now, I think it's best for you to forget about sex and focus on yourself. Also, you also need to learn that your feelings matter as well. She needs to help you build you up. You can't have a healthy relationship when you're having issues and your girlfriend is making you feel worse by expecting you be a pro in the sack and such.
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Wouldn't be easer too just not have sex at all?
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That's exactly what I'm saying. You need to just focus on yourself and try to improve yourself. Every single one of your posts have such a negative view on yourself. You have to work from within.
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But i feel there just no answer that she will just get rid of me and i'll be on my own again. I was lucky too finda girl that would have me once i wont find another.
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There are plenty fish in the sea. Trust me, it's not going to be the end of the world.Honestly, how can you love and take care of someone (like your girlfriend) if you don't love yourself?
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But none of them will want a loser like me. And i do love her and do want 2 take care of her, i just don't give a toss about my self to be honest.
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@xtk5075x You should never for any reason go taking heart pills unless they are prescribed to you for heart conditions.