lately i've been questioning my sexuality quite a bit, and i decided to list thoughts as they came into my head:- i find men's bodies attractive, but only in pictures or in porn... it may come from the fact that i'm jealous that they look better than me, but then again i don't really know haha.- i've never walked past a dude and been like, "that guy is hot" or been attracted to a man in real life.- i find gay porn arousing, but not necessarily because i find the men IN the porn attractive. however, watching straight porn, i can't really get off to it at all if i don't think the girl is gorgeous or a girl that i would like to have sex with.- i have no desire to enter into a relationship with another man (i find most gay men far too annoying to be anything but friends... no offense to anyone who's gay, one of my best friends is gay), and only a slight curiousity to actually have sex with one.- i have dated and had sex with several girls, and i enjoy sex with women very much. one particular girl i dated for over a year, had a lot of sex, and i completely forgot about my attraction to men until recently and it started bothering me a lot.- sometimes i think "oh, you're just attracted to girls because you think you should be," but then... when it comes down to it, i really do love pussy and having sex with women.- i have never been turned on by a man in person, only on the internet. on the other hand, pictures of women don't arouse me too much (but i do find them very attractive), but being with them in person sure does.now, i do understand that there is a huge spectrum of sexuality and that nobody is 100% straight, but i just wanted to hear someone else's opinion, because it's really been bothering me.
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I've been having this issue...
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When you realise you're homosexual, or when you realise you're hetrosexual; you will have accepted it. Do not condem yourself to anything and then feel guilty about it.
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Hi cicatriz, welcome to AfraidToAsk.Your description seems pretty straight to me. In real life, you want women, not men. In porn it's different, but it may be partly that you see yourself as potentially in their place. In any case porn is rather artificial.I don't think you have much to worry about, unless you want to be gay. If the real world expected you to be gay, you would have trouble fitting in.Everyone's sexuality is a bit different. Acceptance of that is key.
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WANT to be gay? I don't know Pete ... I wouldn't say sexuality's a choice. I know many homosexuals who would "rather" be straight and not face scrutiny from social stygmas.
But I agree that there's anything to worry about in his case. Gays are openly accepted in todays society, especially Hillcrest. I used to cringe seeing two guys kiss before I got this job at the HIV Neurobehavioral Research Center. After working "Gay Pride" for the last three years now, I just look away. Still get a lil queezy though.
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I'm not suggesting he does want to be gay - it was a little tongue-in-cheek - my point is that as far as normal life goes, he's heterosexual.