i have been seeing my partner for almost 10 months now, and although we fool around and things, we don't have sex. ok nothing wrong with that. at first i thought it was cause he didn't want to pressure me (me being the virgin in the relationship) and as i had just lost my father, and was a little fragile. however i know that he had bleeding 'issues' with himself when he had sex with his last partner. Now i am a total prude and hate talking about things, but this is kinda getting on my nerves now. i refuse to do anything until after his dissertation is in, but after that i feel i ought to do something. any help appreciated. hope this made sense xx
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Slightly concerned
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I take it the problem is the no sex? What were the "issues" your partner had? Erection difficulties?
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getting it up is no probs, he just doesn't seem to want to go further or when we decide too he cannot. should i just talk to him about it? could it be nerves? he is fairly stressed at the moment.
The problem before was that it hurt him. i have suggested lube might help, but have not bought it up since. -
You two most certainly need to talk about it.Sex shouldn't hurt. Was it lack of lubrication, or, perhaps, foreskin or frenulum problems?