I guess you can call my boyfriend and I "noobs" to having sex. We've only done it about 5 times and unfortunately I believe we may have a problem. Everytime we have sex about 15-20 minutes into it he'll ejaculate. And then that's it. . . He's done. I don't know if this is how it is supposed to be at first but if you know please tell me how to fix it! A little pleasure on my end would be great!
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Originally Posted By: HushBiznazA little pleasure on my end would be great! You gotta tell him that. It's not fair he's getting his rocks off while you're left with the raw end of the deal. He needs to spend time pleasuring YOU. If he doesn't comply, tell him he's not getting any until he learns.
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It's very important that a lot of time is spent on foreplay and giving you pleasure. If he just does things the way he likes them it will be over much too soon.Also, when you get to the sex itself, try positions with you on top and therefore more in control of the pace.
hey, i have sort of the same problem like you, but yeah fingering helps a lot if he does it right when sex doesn't get ya off. my boyfriend finishes kinda quick, too, but then he does a good job with the other things. maybe suggest that i guess.
to add something else here as well, why dont you buy yourself a vibrator?? my boyfriend did and whenever we have sex i use it. gets me off around the same time as he does
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