So, one of my best friends (female) asked me to go to the next school dance and I (male) said yes. For those of you who don't know, I'm gay. I sort of said yes because I knew she wanted me to go even if it was by myself (I didn't want to go) and I did it to help her get away from her "stalker." Ironically, people always thought that her "stalker" was gay. Anyway, she doesn't know that I'm gay but she is openly gay-friendly. However, her best friend/my other best friend might be kind of iffy on the whole thing and if I tell the girl I'm going to the dance with, she's probably going to tell her. I'm afraid that I might lose a friend there. The thing is that I really don't want to tell anyone else about my sexuality but I'm afraid that she might get "affectionate" after or during the dance. I don't want to do any slow dance crap. Does anyone have any idea of what I should do?
Uhh... You probably would want to slow dance over fast dance, because fast dancing is waaay more sexual.... Besides, if you slow dance, you can stand pretty far apart.
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Admit your gay. It's for the best.
There's nothing wrong with telling her your just not interested or you like her but just as a friend.
Now I'm not quite clear, are you saying if you go to the dance with girl A, girl B will tell girl A your gay?
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Originally Posted By: OldFolksThere's nothing wrong with telling her your just not interested or you like her but just as a friend.
Yuppers I agree. There is no reason anyone needs to know about your sexuality, it's none of their business. I went to many dances with girls when I knew I was gay. We went as friends, danced our asses off and had a blast!
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