my current g/f jacked me off the other day and it kinda hurt and I don't think she'd done it before and don't wanna offend her and tell her how to do it...any ideas what to do?thanks
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G/f not doing it right...
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thats the problem though, I have been with other girls and she knows that but I'm guessing she hasn't been with other guys...just seems a bit rude to be like 'no like this' if you get me?
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Diplomacy is the art of getting what you want without being rude. You can say things like "It would feel even better if you did it like this . . .".
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She does it because she wants to please you and in my opinion, helping her along the way and telling her how you'd like it would probably make her feel more secure about it. If my boyfriend didnt like how I did it I would definatly want to know!