I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years and about a month ago I asked if she wanted to see a movie after work (because we work together) and this would be the fist time we would of hung out outside of work or school. Now like I said, we know eachother, we talk, but this was it. The first step into actually doing something. I suggested a movie and mentioned that it would be just as friends. She told me she wouldn't go to the movies with me alone or with any guy alone because that would be leading them on. And I told her once again that it would be just as friends as I have no intentions on dating her. She didn't care. She wouldn't do it. To this day we still talk etc. and it baffles me as to why she said no. Is she arrogant? Does she think she's hot shit and can't see a movie with me because that would flip a switch? WTF! Thanks,
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Wow dude, no offense but you can't get it, can you? I mean, you asked this before.No means no means no. She doesn't have to give you a reason. Just respect her choice and let it go. Don't push this so much to the point you will break off the friendship.
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Generally when you say lets go to the movies it sounds like a date. Movies are a place for teens and even adults to go sit in the back row hold hands makeout etc. Maybe like Hlems sid ask her if she wants to go get coffee or something.
Let me fill everyone in so this topic actually makes sense:TC (Topic Creator) likes this girl, and has told her. So, obviously, when he asked her to go see a movie, he was trying to take the next step. She doesn't want to go there, so she says no.@TC: There's nothing you can do, move on.
You're lying to her by saying that you just want to be friends. She knows that you're full of shit, and doesn't believe you.If you really want to hang out with her (so you guys can get to know each other) do group activities during the day. Most girls suspect dates if they happen at night or alone. Maybe she'll start liking you if you hang out enough, and stop lying to her.
It's your thing, do what you wanna do. I can't tell you who to sock it to.