Hi everyone. I have a committed long distance relationship, but i cheated on my boyfriend back in late April with someone I do not know very well. I really regret this. We had sex twice. the condom broke during the second time and that really freaked me out. I asked my partner to get tested for HIV right away and it came back negative. I had a painless red spot on my labia minora right after the condom broke, but it went away. about a month later, it came back again and went away again. But after that, I have been feeling tired and loss of apetite and weight till now. I got tested for HIV in the beginning of June and it was negative. I was so freaked out about it and I asked my partner to get tested again in mid-July and it was still negative. I am going to get tested again in August, just giving it a three month period. But as for now, I am so scared of HIV and other STDs to the point that I cannot function normally. What could that recurring (twice) red bump be? I also have pains around my pelvic region. I had some burning sensation around my anus. But they eventually went away. I didn't have any painful sores like people with herpes usually have. but I am also aware that one can have symptom-less herpes. I am really feeling the fatigue everyday and I certainly don't eat as much as I use to. I have been to the doctor and got tested for all STDs, except for herpes, because you can really get tested unless there is a lesion. Help, please.
STD after cheating
It's probably nothing. If you've been tested and everything has come back negative I wouldn't spend a lot of time worrying. Most likely your loss in appetite and fatigue are from worrying too much. It's amazing what the mind can do.
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it sounds like herpes to me. the next time you get a sore or even a small raw area, get to the doctor right away for a test.