Is there a difference?

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between cuming and having an orgasm?
also(kind of linked) i orgasm when my boyfriend goes down on me but i don't seem to through sex, or if i do it feels different?
anybody got any answers on this,
sorry if i haven't explained too well.

thanks

It is the same thing, just 2 different names.

With the sex thing, you are just going to have to work yourself on him or have him be in a position that just hits your right spots to make you cum/orgasm. Just do what feels good, and it will intensify like it does when he is going down on you.

I'm sure when he goes down on you, he concentrates on your clit and has more direct and more concentrated contact with it. That is why it is easier for your to cum.

yeh but when we have sex it still feels really good and not like, oh great now i'm frustarted because i haven't had an orgasm, why is that?and i get wet like i have cummed?but it just feels different

Everyone is different. Some women have an orgasm from sex while others from clitoral stimulation and others in a different way. It seems like you orgasm from clitoral stimulation.Don't get so upset over this. You can at least orgasm once, while it can take others a much longer time to learn to have one.

thanks for the help,
i always thought cumming and having an orgasm was a different thing

Oh no, Hotpants is right. They are the same meaning, although I think it's silly to use "cum" for a female since we don't ejaculate like a male. I think that's where it confuses people.

I've never had an orgasm thru just sex, so you're not alone.

If it feels good while you are having sex, then that is good.You are suppose to get wet, if not it would be hard to have sex. When he hits that really good spot, don't stop that certain position and hopefully you will orgasm eventually. Some girls it takes them a longer time then others to have an orgasm. You will figure your body out as time goes by.I like to be on top, so I can control the positions and I get off easier that way. But that is just me. Everyone is different.

ok..wut.. i thought climax and orgasim were the same thing.

Originally Posted By: CR125ok..wut.. i thought climax and orgasim were the same thing. me too

Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarOh no, Hotpants is right. They are the same meaning, although I think it's silly to use "cum" for a female since we don't ejaculate like a male. I think that's where it confuses people. though some girls can "squirt" can they not when they have an orgasm?

Yes but again it's quite different from male "cum" and that confuses people by using that term.

Then in that case a woman "cumming" is different to an orgasm. Just the word "cumming" should not be use....what should it be called :P

Originally Posted By: hitomsmatThen in that case a woman "cumming" is different to an orgasm.No, it is still all the same thing. Females just adopted the word cumming from Males. When Men cum they orgasm. Females orgasm and just call it cumming. We 'get off' or reach our peek of excitment.Some of us females do squirt, and we squirt when we orgasm. I don't think there are that many of us who squirt, I know I don't and don't personally know anyone who does or at least that I am aware any.

yes, every girl is different, and some get off faster then others. you just have to find the "spot" or position that get's them off. but both names are 1 and the same.

Originally Posted By: CR125ok..wut.. i thought climax and orgasim were the same thing. I agree. What do you mean they're different? An orgasm is a sexual climax.