So, the a week or 2 ago I was having sex for the 2nd time & there was some bleeding, we just thought she'd bled, but then about 24 hours later I noticed my frenulum had ripped abit, then again a few days ago it ripped abit more, it hasnt fully snapped though. So I need to know, will it keep ripping & hurting everytime, because I really dont want this happening all the time and I cant goto the doctors because my dad works there....and my gf doesnt know yet either. Please help me with this problem
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Other people are going to give you a better response, but I wanted to give you a link to another recent post about another member with the same problem.
Just something to read until more people are on. Oh, and don't be ashamed of doing to the doctor just because your dad works there. I know it can be weird but this is a medical condition you gotta deal with. Your well being is important.
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It sounds like you have a problem. I have not had to deal with this kind of think myself, but know some men that have. I know they were concerned about it and tried for several weeks or longer only for it to tear again when they were having sex. I would say you probably have a very short Frenulum. I would suggest seeking medical attention. It’s a medical problem that needs to be addresses and you don’t have to tell anyone you were having sex, just that it is continually ripping and you need it taken care of.
You didn’t say how old you were so I can assume you’re under 18 or you wouldn’t be worried that your Dad find out. I’m big on communication and I would hope my son would ask me about it if he was having the same problem.
Keep us in formed of what happens. It could help others here.
Ok, so I went to the doctors today & all he did was prescirbe me some cream & antibiotics. Any idea if this will heal it for good or anything?
Likely. And once it doesn't feel sensitive (like "not-healed-yet sensitive"), you can try using the stretching exercises described on this forum on it -- hopefully they'll lengthen it a little, making it eventually less susceptible to breaking during sex.