Do you believe in casual sex?

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never had sex but i would think it depends on the person if u know what i mean, as long as its safe and no1 gets hurt. But that said i wouldn't think its good over a long period of time as it wouldmake me feel empty inside. But likei said i never had sex so what would some1 like me know.

I think casual sex is only capable if you have a certain view on what sex is. If someone sees sex as something completely serious and something you should only do if you love the person, then no, there would not be an existence of casual sex in that person's belief system. But, if they view sex as just another fun thing to do with another person like playing baseball or something, then yes, casual sex would most likely be an idea in their minds.I personally don't but uh... I really don't know what to think of the subject now.

Can u view it as both? say for example i had a gf and she said she could share me in sex but not share my heart, is this possible?

is this possible?Yes, it's called Friends with Benefits

Friends? u mean the other girls or my surposed gf?Also my signiture has changed it was "I have nothing to give nor ask anything in return" now its "I have nothing to give nor ask anything in return I will however be your friend for life for I and true through and through."who can do that?

No, it's called Friends with Benefits.Basically, fuck buddies with no strings attached.http://smartatlove.typepad.com/annieweblog/2007/07/friends-with-be.html

well in this postion now but i dunno what 2 do i could do this but wouldn't it make me look selfish?

What situation exactly are you in?Your girlfriend is willing to have sex with you, but it ain't exactly her idea?

no she said she wouldn't mind havin a 4some with 2 of her other friends and me, which don't get me wrong sounds fun but sometimes i feel bad about the idea. I don't other ppl 2 think sex is all i think about with and im using her, i like her ALOT. I have already been acused of these things before and 2 made alot of problems for me and her. Then theres is the other idea which also great but also scares the hell out of me but i dunno if i put it on here or not, its knind crazy.

Does this really seem like the kind of place where we'll judge you? But anyway, if you're both up for it then go for it. I know that its sometimes hard to ignore what other people say about you, but they're not having a foursome!

well its her im worried about, guys have cheated on her in past and some have just used her for sex then left, i don't want her 2 think of me like that. As for the other idea well the idea was too do the 4some again and have a another 3 girls join us also so it would be me and 6 other girls. I offered to sit sit back and let them have the fun but now im told that these other girls wont do it with other girls unless a guys has intercourse with them (which is me) which is y i feel selfish and its getting out of hand.

I myself do not believe in casual sex..

I guess I am a girl at heart.. but, I believe in the whole idea of love with it.. I want someone who is going to be there when I wake up (then we can do it again!). However, in all seriousness I view sex as sex and love as love.

I believe you can have casual sex however, I am not going to have it with someone I don't love.

I'm not going to judge anyone who has casual sex or anything but, also.. I am probably not the person to turn to if something goes wrong.

Ex. My room mate met a girl then had sex with her the next day. He expects me to be surprised she is clingy now.

Well whose idea was it? If you're worried about this stuff or feel uncomfortable with it, tell her. Talk to her about it. If you're in a relationship and doing this kinda stuff, you should at least be able to discuss it openly with her.

I guessed i did think that sex should be with a loved one at one point and in certain respects i still do but times change i guess havin 3somes and one nights stand seem to be more the norm nowa days than it did before or maybe im no better then the other guys before me which i didn't want too happen. Also im not worried about the other girls getting "clingy" 99.9% of girls wouldn't look at me twice so thats not gonna be a problem.

some parts were my mine some were hers, i mean she has already asked the other 6 girls on it. And we talk about it and it's fun 2 do so its heals her mind she says as she was attacked about 2 weeks ago and it helps her recover by talking about sex and all these fun ideas. But when i say i have problems with it like i did yesterday she went off at the deep end like she sometimes does. I ask her if she thinks im being selfish, she just said she was used 2 it from her other bf's and its normal and 2 be honest i dunno what 2 think. We have both agreed not 2 talk about for a week 2 see if my minds still on it, i just hope it all works out.

Absolutely not. It seems kinda whack IMHO. When I have sex I want it to be with someone I love. Not some boy from the chess club. And the guy above me is from ENGLAND that is so sexy!!

Originally Posted By: JapanFan14And the guy above me is from ENGLAND that is so sexy!! And taken out of context, that sounds so dirty!

I guess I'm sketchy on what the definition of "casual sex" is.I've been having sex with one of my ex-girlfriends. Our informal arrangement is if we are really interested in someone else then we let the other know and we stop having sex. We love each other, but we know that there's a good chance that we will not be together forever. So we go out together, enjoy each other's company, go back to each other's places, and if the mood is right (which it almost always is) then we have sex and just enjoy our time together. We look at it as living in the present.I've had one one-night-stand and didn't like it at all.

Ok first i also want 2 have sex with some1 i love, but then again when i talk 2 ppl abut my depression i get many times that i live once so just do it. Too be honest if this was a perfect world i wouldn't have sex AT ALL i'd die a virgin would be simple if not rather upseting but thats hard 2 do nowa days. What do i do when she wants do this stuff?Second im not from a chess club if thats what your on about, i have found that is for smart ppl only and im so far off smart its a joke.And last....WTH...is being from england sex, its a ****hole.