Do you believe in casual sex?

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Don't mind Abi (JapanFan14), she's just a bit sex-obsessed.

well, I've had one hell of a lot of casual sex.

I've had a number of serious, long term relationships but there always seems to be a pile of the meningless, what-did-you-say-your-name-was sex inbetween the relationships.

however, admittedly, I'm quite an emotional type and sometimes I have developed feelings where they weren't warrented.

She don't seem like it, but then im new too this stuff and abit slow on the uptake.

She's quite good at keeping it on the low-down.

I just don't know what too do, hell most guys(or so im told)wouldn't mind being in my postion, yet u all tell me its a bad idea. The last time i said a 3some was a bad idea she went off on 1.

I'm not saying its a bad idea, I'm just saying that if both of you aren't fully comfortable with it then it could mess things up. But fuck it, go for it, she seems to be well up for it!

I just don't want 2 be seen as some1 that doesn't care about her, but she online now so maybe i'll talk 2 her about it.

{STAR}, you shouldn't feel obliged to have sex if you don't really want it. To feel that you must have every experience life has to offer is, I think, the wrong philosophy of life, and anyway it's impossible; and while sex is special, it's not so special that everyone has to do it. Plenty of guys have lived rich and fulfilling lives without it.

I suspect all this talk about a foursome or lots of girls is just talk and it will never happen. In any case I don't think it's the best way to have your first sex. First sex is rarely very good - things go wrong, and it's a learning experience more than anything else. I don't think it would help having, effectively, an audience.

lol don't listen to bobbers he's a DIRTY Irish man! I'm a virgin which I don't think I can say the same for him COUGH! anyway, I just have a thing for Europe right now including England, Scotland, Ireland, Italy, etc. So don't mind my random outbursts.and it's DOWN LOW or DL not low down bob... lol

oh no no no no this wont be my first time, us just 2 first for a long time. God i hate 2 have my first time in a 3some or whatever it would be.....doesn't bear thinking about. And 2 be honest i hope something does get in the way something always does. As for not havin sex well she wants it she loves sex, wouldn't that make feel bad or something. Plus she wants do it with me because she loved me. What im i meant 2 say 2 that?

OK, 1 - I'm 20, I'm allowed to not be a virgin.

And 2 - We speak different dialects of English, you say "down low" and I say "low down". Just as you say "Mr. President" while I say "Mr. Fucktard".

lol bob you're just special. is that my fault? no. and my sister is 25 and didn't have sexi till she was 24

Lol i have 2 say england sucks, it REALLY does so i would forget about it.

If you don't want it then say "I don't want to have a threesome/foursome. I love you and I love having sex with you, but I just don't want to be involved with a third or fourth person."

Well, thats what she told you... cough cough

Well i try, but i promised her we wouldn't talk about for lil while, see where stand in a week or so on the subject. I just have a feeling sayin no 2 this could make things worse. Also how would i go about telling her i don't think i can have sex at all even if she loves it.

You don't want to have sex at all?

wow, some of these folks have some major hang-ups about sex.shhhhhhh... don't tell anyone... I'm not a virgin either

Yea

No i don't i talk about it like i do want it mst of the time, but deep down sex scares the hell out of me, i have failed at so many things and i don't want this to be on the list so i think it best 2 just not 2 have it at all.