Psychopath?

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Quote:me and my fiancé have fought about his nephew alot, and he does know the child has a problem, but like i said, he doesn't think it's as bad as i do, I’m pretty much staying out of this (well i don’t; have kids so yea..) but i just can't but wonder.. if he knows he got a problem but isn’t trying to doing nothing about HIS nephew and maybe he’s not cuz he don’t think it’s that bad (like u said) but. ur going to marry him and one day he could be ur own kids dad... if he thinks this behavior is as u put it "he doesn't think it's as bad as i do" and i'm not going back to find more quotes.. but yea.. i'd have some kind of red flags go up if my girl friend thought her nephew who was bad …wasn’t so bad. You can only do so much to and with a kid that isn’t yours or in your family. it’s really up to the kid’s family to raise him. it’s not even your boyfriends. The way I see it is stop going around the kid. And if that means stop going around your boyfriend.. Then so be it. Maybe it will wake his ass up. If not.. Really… Do u want some one that LETS their nephew try to stab u and smash up hands in doors …and then saying well it’s not that bad to raise your own child? 0o … I sure as hell wouldn’t hell I wouldn’t go a mile of this kid.. I don’t care if it was the kids mom I was dating.. People may disagree with me on this but I think when u marry someone u are also marring into that family. Shit wuts this kid going to be like when his hormones kick in and he’s like 13..16.. 0o scary. Ok.. I’m done!

yeah, truthfully, i think he just doesn't know how to handle it since it's not his kid, he's said to me before that when we babysit his nephew he feels like he cant punish him since it's not his child(btw he doesnt want kids).
and yeah his mom is VERY manipulating and a HUGE drama gueen and she makes my fiance feel bad and do stuff for her alllll the time, i see it but once again, my fiance doesn't because it's his mom UGH!(but thats a LOOOONG story). but i love my fiance VERRRRRRRRRRRRRRY much, so i just deal with it. but i might start leaving when the kid comes over if i can(i dont have a car) and tell my fiance that i just cant deal with his nephew anymore, hes getting out of hand, and if my fiance gets mad owell, maybe he'll get the picture. thanks for everyones advice :smile:

Again, I wish you the best of luck, sweetie.

but i might start leaving when the kid comes over if i can(i dont have a car) and tell my fiance that i just cant deal with his nephew anymorePlease come back and tell us what happened when you have done this.For the record: I don't think you'll do it.

Maybe you and your fiance should compromise... He picks one thing he dislikes about you or your family for you to give up, in exchange for you two getting the hell out of that town and moving a few hundred miles away.

and you know me? NO, go get a life and stop bugging me!!!

You came here asking for our opinions, don't be hostile when you get a few you don't like. Personally, if any of my relatives girlfriends (fiance is a fancy word for not married yet) stuck their nose in my PRIVATE buisness like that with out me warranting an opinion from them, you'd be less likely to get a toaster and more likely to get a rat trap for a wedding present. You'd think the fact they already think you're crazy/not realistic about it would be a big enough hint that they don't want your opinion.

Holy crap you are mean!

Did you even read what she wrote? The very first post seems like she just genuinely cares about this child and his behavior. And if you continue and read a little further, it seems like she hasn't even talked to the parents about it....she just wants to know **if ** she should talk to them **or ** what she can do to **help **. What is so wrong with that?

And your very first response to her was to "mind her own business". And from there it just escalated to her feeling she needs to defend herself to you. This is such crap.

THANK YOU DxLISHxISx_43!!!!!!!!!....java you are a total as.yes i came here for opinions, good HELPFUL ones, not idiots talking about rat traps. i haven't even said anything to the parents, and they don't think i'm crazy, you must not have read all of what i've said, and i know what a fiance is you dumbfck and all of my FIANCES family sticks there noses in me and my FIANCES business so go bug someone else and stop replying to my posts!!!