i finally met a girl who sex is not the only thing i want from her. and im scared as fuck. everytime i talk to her i feel wierdish that i will mess something up. shes just so great and i doubt she knows it. and shes always sad b/c her parents fight so much. says im the only thing that makes her smile. if things are so good... WHY AM I SO SCARED?
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Finally met a girl ...
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It is normal for you to be scared. But you need to loosen up and be yourself. I know how it feels when you like someone but you feel diff when your around them. Just loosen up a little bit and dont think about messing up. Think about having a good time
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Love is pretty scary. You don't know where it will take you and it makes you vulnerable.
But congratulations anyway. :smile:
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-_- how can i be in love if ive only known her like 2-3 weeks. and no its not the chick i am/was going to homecoming with.
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Okay, maybe not love but you do have some sort of attraction to her, since you have a case of the butterflies.Just take it one step at a time and get to know her better. I know you like sex, but if you do like her, slow down and see where this goes. And of course, be yourself. Best of luck!
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Sometimes people fall in love after only a few minutes, so it certainly can be. Have you told her how you feel?
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Well, try to listen to her when she needs someone to talk to, be yourself, give your opinion and make sure she feels safe when she's around you and away from all the crap her parents give her. Don't be scared because if you help her, she'll help you, and she'll trust you, and you won't have anything to worry about because she'll realize you're great.And Ineligible, in reply to your comment, Whew! Have I been there before. Seventh grade practically effed me up. Though I don't suppose you could call my situation a love kind of thing, since I guess, if you smacked me and got me thinking, I'd realize that there was no love.