Hey all. I need some help. I need to know how to stop cutting. The first time I ever cutt was about 5 years ago. Just resently I have began to want to cutt all the time. I need advise on how you guys stoped . Please ! I have began to get scared of what I may do next. I cant trust Myself. I am this guy---> :confused:.....Confused
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This is For Ex cutters
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go to a psych ward...that will work...worked for me
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In reply to: go to a psych ward...that will work...worked for me I dont think so. I am not a psyco person. I just have a problem that I need to fix. I dont think I would find help there. Plus I live on the big island of Hawaii were there are no places like that. I would never leave this island for that I am not even planing to move for schooling. My mother would never go to that extream eather=(taking me to a pyhch ward.) I need a different path cause if that ever happened to me a would look for every way to kill myself. But thanks for your advise Amanda. Every little bit can make the differance.
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I had a dream last night. In that dream my so called father told me that he is not my father and I am not his daugter.(not in the way that he was not the one who got my mom pragnate) meaning that he dose not want me anymore. To tell you the truth I (still in my dream) went to him to say I would forgive him and thats when he said it. I think that dream means that I must never do that and forgive him. Doing so would only cushin him, make him feel like nothing is wrong with him doing drugs and drinking all the time. Its all so confusing. But remember......(Look at my signature)(Look down)
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Psycho wards aren't necessarily for "psychos", they're for alcoholics, drug addicts, cutters, etc. And every hospital has one, even in Hawaii.
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If anything that would be a last resort. And how do you know that Hawaii (and I am talking about the BIG ISLAND of Hawaii. The bigist island in the hawaiian chain.) has one. The hosbital in my town dosent. The ones in other towns dont .
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Every hospital has some sort of one, every state in the United States has one.
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i'm not sure were to put this. it dosn't have to do with the post per say but this post and some others i have read today and in the past...well each time i see a post where som e one is asking for help and then when it's mentioned to go see a "nut doc" or something they don't want the help. i get it that they might be scared but why ask for help if they really don't want it??? i guess it just confusses me.if u don't want help don't ask or tell. it's that simple. personaly i don't think a selfharmer can stop with out seeing some one. about the other people saying they have this or that well how the hell do u know if u don't have a doc tell you that's what u got. and even doc misdignose. i know my spelling sucks and i don't care. try to figure out wut i said. anyway i'm done whinning now.
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you're right, people come on here asking for help/suggestions and everything you try to say to help them out they slam down, that's why this particular forum can irritate me sometimes
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In reply to: you're right, people come on here asking for help/suggestions and everything you try to say to help them out they slam down, that's why this particular forum can irritate me sometimes I said I was greatful for your advice. Phycoh wards arent for everyone. I would die befor I did that. In reply to: each time i see a post where som e one is asking for help and then when it's mentioned to go see a "nut doc" or something they don't want the help. i get it that they might be scared but why ask for help if they really don't want it??? i guess it just confusses me.if u don't want help don't ask or tell. it's that simple. personaly i don't think a selfharmer can stop with out seeing some one. about the other people saying they have this or that well how the hell do u know if u don't have a doc tell you that's what u got. and even doc misdignose. And to you CR125 I have done to three different doctors that have all said I am Suffering from Depression and I am a cutter. I know what I am talking about okay.I am not making this shit up. And I am grtting help from a doctor already I just made this post to get other alternatives. If I say I am not going to use your advice and go to a ward, Deal with it. Just cause you write on here dose not mean I am going to take your advice, at least not right away. I am wanting the advice that is way I am on here. Just like doing somthing else other than going to a ward, did not work for you Amanda, a ward will not work for me. Trust me. I know myself the best right. I have a alot on my plate okay. If I dont make sence here or there or I am moody you know why. I am not making my life out to be worse that I is. In fact I havent even told you guys everything. SO dont turn it in to somthing its not.It alway stars to get negative with the to of you(amanda and CR125. Even in my last post. If you dont like it or me(cause it seems to happen only in my posts) then please stop coming in my post.
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anytime u need to talk, just PM me and i'll get back to u as soon as i can ,HUGS N CUDDLES 4 u, i'm a cutter too
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Thank you gurl!!!!!!!!!!
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hawaiian chicka, I've been in your position before and I know how you feel. The problem is that you're asking for simple answers to a huge problem that you've been living with for such a long time. Honestly, it is not easy to stop and none of us can make it easy for you. If there's anything I've learned from posting here, it's that you need to take the extra step for your self, to help your self. I hope you feel better, and sorry if this isn't what you want to hear.
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ey i stoped cutting by wearing rubber bands. It might seam weird but it helped. Whenever I felt like I was going to cut I puled the rubber band so that it would flick my rist. And I got rid of all of my sharp things. And you havn't told your friends or anyone you should and maby they can help you to. Good Luck!!!