Bendiness

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i know i posted this before, but it was a long time ago, nd im hoping that there will be more people that can help me now.
ok, so my penis is way to soft/thin at the base, its fine for jacking off and all, but when me and my boyfriend try to have sex (im usually the bottom but lately he has been refusing to "do" me until he gets penetrated) i get hard and all but when it comes time to stick it in it wont go, it bends. i know its not my boyfrieds ans, becaue ive tried it with other prople before im and got the same result. if anyone can help me with this it would be GREATly appreciated. (i was trying not to use vugar language)

It sounds like you are unable to achieve a full erection. For that you will need to seek competent medical attention. It would be best to seek the advice of a urologist. The causes of an incomplete erection are to varied to try and diagnose over the net. They could be anything from diabetes to psychogenic to hormone levels being a bit off.Because of the longstanding, seemingly, unchanged nature of your ED problem it is probably less likely to be of the psychogenic nature. Those sort of ED problems are less consistent being fully erect on time and not the next three then fully erect again and not the next five, and so forth. However it generally takes a nocturnal something or other test (I can't think of the name right now) to determine whether the problem is psychogenic or not.I would encourage you to seek out a urologist to ascertain the cause of and best treatment for your condition._________________________________________________________________I don't know that it will be any help but here's a google result that had some penis problem info.

Hey Morgiporgi...I am not sure how old you are or how long you have been having sex with your partner, but I know several men who are exclusively a "Bottom" and always lose their erection when asked to preform as a top.It sounds to me that you might enjoy receiving it more than giving it. This is not a bad position to be in. Bottoms hold and control the power!

Buy a 12" dildo to use on him while he sucks you dry. Do you start to lose your erection or it just bends at the base too much? The same problem can happen if you are too large and he and others are too tight maybe. What do I know, never tried it with a guy.

it just bends to much at the base, and it could also be a subconcious thing too

Could you explain what you mean by "it could also be a subconcious thing too"?

like, ive tried so many times and faled that subconciously i am telling myself that it wont work before i try

Yes, that can certainly happen. What you want is a nice success. I've wondered whether hypnotism would help, but I don't know. How does your bf feel about oral penetration instead of anal?

u mean rimming? no way. he is to the point that he wants to find someone else to penetrate him

No, I meant a bj. This doesn't sound good.