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In a way, that someone truly loves you when they see you and are with you on your worst days but still street you the same and see you as attractive etc? I don't know I'm kind of blabbing because I'm kind of confused. It's actually yesterday that I was having one of the worst days of my life. Seriously, I would just shoot somebody in the face just for saying hi lol. But no, it's because Tatyanna was here. Yes, I call my period Tatyanna lol. But when she's here I usually don't care how I look I just want to be comfortable and do nothing. Just eat ice cream and watch Lincoln Heights. But my boyfriend paid me a surprise visit and I looked a hot mess. Like I rolled out of bed, literally. My hair was jacked up like I combed with a rake and it was all poofy and curly and looked like a lions mane. And I had on some baggy sweats, one of my brother's shirts and I was in major pain. So he came over and gave me a hug to see how I was doing. And I sort of didn't care at first like... ok thanks now what? And I was mumbling in Portuguese and whatever being all cranky. But he was just like... so sweet and kind and tolerant. And I remember when he first came in and I said "oh great I look like I got hit with the ugly bus" and he said "no you look beautiful" and I was just like... awwww blushing and looking like a tomato. He was all touching my cheek and playing with my hair... my jungle of a head. So I figure I could take it that he truly loves me for me. It was just very different I guess and not something I'm used to. I'm not usually treated like that unless it's by my close friends and my family. And I guess why it was so weird is because he was as comfortable with me as my sister is. I mean my sister will tell me straight up "girl, you look JACKED UP!" but she says she's just playing and says I look fine. He had the same kind of coolness except he's not as insulting as she is lol. So yeah, does this happen with you guys? You know, those of you in relationships and what not when you look like a badger and your as wild and crazy as a tornado but your lova still treats you the same?Edit:And I had to apologize to him because I realize that even if I'm going through something bad no matter what it is, I shouldn't treat people whether they're strangers or friends in a bad way and that it's not right to take it out on them. Basically I guess to remain stable.

It is an indicator that you are loved. Seems genuine, too. My GF loves me with my stank ass morning breath and everything else, she'll even whiff my UW to check if they're clean or not before doing laundry. Aaaah, true love!

You could just be nicerto yur GF.
I got two solutions for it.
the harder one is to put your dirty fucking clothes in a hamper so that she knows anythign in there is dirty,
the easiest way is to just stop wearing underwear.
love works both ways, and I can promise you while she may do it and all, she would be so much happier if you took some initiative and made it possible to leave that step out.

How freaky! Something like that happened to me also in the beginning of my relationship. But it's really wonderful to hear such a nice story coming from someone else. Your boyfriend sounds like sweetheart, just like you.

awww thanks I always feel really happy and peaceful with him. Like I could eat like a pig in a slop and he'd still treat me the same way. And we're like just so comfortable together like a brother sister relationship but at the same time a couple. It's different for me but I'm happy lol. there was one time I tried to hide my feet from him because I hate my feet and he tickled them and was like "aww your feet are so cute and tiny" I was like... NO. lol

For me with virtual_star I would kiss her and hug her and cuddle with her even if she has a cold or the flu. I don't care if I get sick I love her that much. You have a great guy you know and you are a great person as well. Guys like me and your boyfriend, man, we're a dying breed. If only there were more guys like us out there to run asshole guys out of town lol .

You totally have the non gay version of my boyfriend! Then again, Devin would say the same about me... anyways! He sounds so sweet to you. And anyone who would go through risking being killed by Tatyanna... that's love. You sound like a great person too! The part about you not looking your best and him saying that you looked beautiful reminded me of Devin so much... it was when I broke my foot... I just didn't feel like being nice or dressing nice due to pain... and he was like... you're so cute. Love's just crazy like that! And from how it sounds, you're likely to be with him for... ever

Originally Posted By: bhendrix08And from how it sounds, you're likely to be with him for... ever yay! my future hubby! LOL I'm not going to get too excited yet, but just in case... we're getting married in New Zealand lol.

Originally Posted By: JEDI-ALCHEMISTFor me with virtual_star I would kiss her and hug her and cuddle with her even if she has a cold or the flu. I don't care if I get sick I love her that much.Lol, this was the story I was talking about.I remember early in our relationship I was uber sick. I wore my pajamas and looked like hell and was coughing up a biohazzard storm. Out of the blue, there's a knock on my door and it was JEDI-ALCHEMIST. I was suprised to see him but I was even more suprised with what he brought along.In his hands, he had a container of chicken soup. He gave it to me along with a kiss. I told him no, but he didn't care. He also said I looked beautiful, even though I was embarrassed by how awful I looked. But it was one of the most happiest moments in my life. It is a great feeling when our guys tells us how much they love us, no matter how messed up we look or how we feel about our insecurities. Although, there are times when he'll complement me sweetly and I ask "What did you do?", lol! But like I said also, it's even better sharing it with others who are lucky enough to have the same thing.Abi, you go girl! Whoot whoot!

That's funny. I'll have to take that into consideration.

There was a time I dindt give a rats ass, I eft dishes all over the house, dirty cloths every where, what ever I felt like because I hated the bitch and it really pissed her off.Now I do dishes, do laundry, keep shit picked up, fuck I even vacuume and dust! nto to mention wipe off the mirrors. what I noticed is the more I do and easier on her I make it, the better mood shes in, the better time we have and the more exotic/kinky/hot sex I get.just passing on a tip, maybe not to you directly, but to anyone.

that is so sweet! you guys are so cute together. my guy and I, we've had our ups and downs and they always turn out better in the end. I don't think we've gone a day without talking to each other or seeing each other. and that whole problem I had with the whole performance in Louisiana or whatever, he's pretty much convinced me to do the one for my sis. for all the right reasons too.

You seem to be in the stage where your guy can "do no wrong."

oh no he has some MAJOR flaws. lol