I have a boyfriend who is great and lately we have been talking about fantasies. HE wants to have a threesome. I am kinda turned on by that but I have never been with another girl. I get turned on by watching porn and I masturbate all the time to it. I am just curious and maybe it will go away...or will it?
Am I bi?
Ah, the imortal ménage a trois. It can be an intersting experiance. I, myself, have been involved in a multi-partner situation (I say 'multi' cause technically I have never been with just 2 other people...wierd, yes) and I am not Bi, there were males there, of course, but I was not affected by them.
THINGS to consider when doing a threesome...
Jealousy: Will you be jealous if he becomes engrossed in the other woman and neglects you?
Insecurity: Will he be threatened if you become too interested in the woman and neglect HIM.
Those are the biggies, jealousy being NUMBER ONE on the hit parade. That is the number one killer of relationships when a threesome is attempted.
Now, on to your question on if you are Bi. You are the only one that can answer that question. And here is how. Are you sexually attracted to women? Do they turn you on physically or emotionally? That is the way you can tell. When I was a little younger I began to wonder if my lack of success with women was because deep down I was a homosexual. Not a good fear for a man, let me tell you. Especially in my family at the time, where you hear fag and queer being hurled around like rotten salami. I asked myself those two questions... and found that I do not find them sexually arousing, or emotionally arousing. As a matter of fact I began to wonder why women like them so much, but that's a WHOLE new thread.
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Strangely enough I have had a threesome. My boyfriend suggested it and since im the kind of person who is up for anything decided to do it. I had never thought about girls or had any attraction to them. After that great experience i found out things about myself. Women are fun to be with because they know exactly what you like..they do have the same feeling and parts and know what feels good. I am now grin completely bi-sexual and i feel that if you are wanting to try this or might be confused on the matter of whether or not your bi then you should do it.