lately ive been finding it quite hard to feel practically anything. well cept anger, thats always a constant companion, but its love i want to talk about just now. through my life ive always had someone that i could focus it on. always. but lately ive found it nearly impossible to feel anything even remotely approaching love, or even lust towards anyone, and i have no idea why. anyone got any pointers as to what i could do to get out of this rut. i realise im not really being that informative in this post, but im just not really feeling it today, ill try again some other
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Lacklustre approach to love
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not feeling love / lust for anyone is not a total bad thing, can be considered a good thing i think!are you depressed at the moment?
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same here... i havent had any desire to start a relationship with anybody since 8th grade... i really dont want a girlfriend and its been like that for about 2 years now
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heh, well its been quite a while since i posted this. same tsill applies but ive found new things to focus on instead of love/lust. it had just hit me as a surprise the last time, as i always need soemthing to occupy my time/life and love/lust (using a lot of slashes today) was the main constituent of that. it could have been learning a new language, skills, whatever, taking up a new sport, or my personal favourite, the quest for the One. given up on that for the time being, and i can satisfy my bodies own cravings. instead ive gone back to one of my older pasttimes. bodybuilding. not like the Hun brothers, but just improving my physique back to the perfection it used to be grins its easier to focus on it when im not looking to my left and right as much down the gym. sweat does make clothes just cling to womens body far too tightly for me to have been able to keep a clear head before grins
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It's been four years since I've been in a relationship and I find that my family is getting on me about it. My last relationship was with someone who I would have married, but circumstances beyond my control prevented that from happening and now she's married to someone else. That was hard enough to take, but since then, I've tried dating with no success. Although the thought of having someone is pleasant, it doesn't seem likely to happen and right now I'm okay with that.I turned 30 a few months ago and it all seems like a waste of my time anyway. Maybe my confidence is shaken, but things haven't gone good in that department, including having a stalker for four years and dealing with someone who was a heavy drug user.I've spend way too much time stressing about this in the past and it's not worth it. I made it such a high priority in college that my grades were slipping. I find that if it don't let it bother me, then I am much happier.My parents and sister have been saying for a long time if I want to meet anyone that I need to start going to church. I am agnostic so it makes no sense for me to go to church, and I have a problem with trying to pass myself off as a religious person just to hook up with someone. I have met some of these people my sister who to go church and they all get married very young, have kids almost immediately, and so far, quite a few of them are now getting divorced. I am a bit tired of the pressure they are putting one me. Ever since my sister had her baby, it's been getting worse.