What causes blue balls exactly? I always get them when me and my GF are cuddling or making out, and they hurt so bad!
A build up of pressure without the release you would get from achieving orgasm. And yes they're painful.
I can't explain it better than other people but things such as using Stop & Go technique of masturbation that postpones ejaculation/orgasm will also cause you to have "blue balls."
We do what we do in life because the world tells us it's right. But what's there to tell the world whether or not what -it's- doing is right?
cure for blue balls is immediate masterbation. no matter where you are. hit the bathroom immediately. you'll blow your load in less than a minute i guarantee.