Me and my gf tryed to have sex a bunch of times within the past 3 months. now the past week for some reason she was super wet and wasent tight at all...so we ended up having sex with out a problem(shes a virgin). Now we had a chance to do stuff and it went in with out a problem, she said it hurt a little. is it normal for some 1 not be able to have sex because there to tight and then out of no where they can handle it?
Having sex with out it hurting?
Er... it's possible for a woman to be especially tight, I guess, but I don't think it should be ever that tight that she couldn't take it, unless she had a low threshold for physical pain.
We do what we do in life because the world tells us it's right. But what's there to tell the world whether or not what -it's- doing is right?
Unless, of course, she was really nervous and tensed up... Maybe she just learned how to enjoy the moment.
It's your thing, do what you wanna do. I can't tell you who to sock it to.
Quote:is it normal for some 1 not be able to have sex because there to tight and then out of no where they can handle it? Yup, pretty normal. It always depends on each time you have sex.If she's nervous or tense, her body will constrict and make sex harder and painful for her. She needs to be relaxed and "in the mood", if you will.Another thing that could be painful is if you penetrate too deep and constantly hit her cervix.Key thing to do is put HER in the mood. Pleasure her and have some nice foreplay, so she can be as relaxed as possible.
No matter how gifted, you alone can not chang...