My girlfriend ended her period two days ago. We had sex today without a condom and I used the withdraw method.I didn't come inside her but I'm not sure about pre-cum.Im pretty sure I didn't come inside her due to the fact that alot came out side her but I'm not to sure about precum and its worrying me.
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Yet another am I pregnant?
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You should be worried, pulling out is in no way a form of contraception. Its a stupid things to do. Why didn't you wear a condom?
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It depends on a lot of things. If you did perfect use of it, then theres likely 2-4 percent of pregnancy but if not, then I'd say somewhere between 10-30 percent.Kind of funny 'cause condoms have the same failure rate.
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I mean I thought girls were less likely to be pregnant if they were done shortly after their period. Is it too late to take the pill? When is it to late?
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The morning after pill can be taken within the first 72 hours but is most effective in the first 24.
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Yes, there is. It's called coitus interruptus
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You don't seem to understand what he meant. The withdrawal method is so shit and useless that it doesn't even count as a proper method of contraception.I was involved in the Sexual Health Awareness Week in my college and we had to hand out pamphlets about different forms of contraception and the withdrawal method, or coitus interruptus, was in it. We went through every single pamphlet and ripped it out of each one. We called the publishers and asked them why did they include it and they claimed that it was for people who wouldn't use contraception for religious reasons.If you aren't going to protect yourself, you shouldn't be having sex. Condoms are not expensive, they're not dangerous and they take only a few seconds to put on, where is the problem? If anyone is stupid enough to use the withdrawal method then they deserve whatever consequences may arise.
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tommy4lyfe, perhaps the others seem a bit strident - after all the number of sperm likely to be in precum is small, and just after her period is usually a relatively low-fertility period. The chance of pregnancy from one occasion is very low.However, neither withdrawal, nor restricting sex to times close to her period (the rhythm method), have good long-term records for contraception. They are methods that really are only suitable if pregnancy would not be so bad - say, for married couples wanting to space the births a bit.The trouble is, looking back over your posts (in both names), you keep on taking risks and then regretting it because of the worry. If you keep on taking risks, one day your worries will come true. The two of you need to work out a proper contraceptive plan. Perhaps you need to make sure you both keep supplies of condoms. Perhaps she needs to go on oral contraceptives. Whatever it is, the two of you have to work this out and not trust on luck.
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If both are used in perfect use, there's only a 2 percent difference between them? How is that so bad? Condoms are obviously better - they protect against STIs.
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Well yes, pulling out increases the effectiveness of other contraceptions. But by itself, it isn't reliable.
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Normally, I don't like making echo posts. But...
Originally Posted By: Ineligible
The trouble is, looking back over your posts (in both names), you keep on taking risks and then regretting it because of the worry. If you keep on taking risks, one day your worries will come true. The two of you need to work out a proper contraceptive plan. Perhaps you need to make sure you both keep supplies of condoms. Perhaps she needs to go on oral contraceptives. Whatever it is, the two of you have to work this out and not trust on luck.
...that deserved to be repeated in hopes that the poster will understand that sex isn't a game.The "withdrawal method"...who's the Dee Dee Dee that came up with that stupid idea?
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Your correct, except that I will add, the rhythm method also takes in to account the type of discharge, and uses a basal thermometer.
My MOST fertile time of the month is the 2 days immediately AFTER my period. I can tell you the day I had sex and conceived both my girls.
To the OP...until you REALLY know what is going on, just use a condom. Every girl is different, and pregnancy can happen even DURING a period.
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I think, Pepsi, of the method that looks at the discharge as the Billings method (or variants), and the thermometer method as the temperature method. Both are much better than the simple rhythm method that just makes assumptions as to when ovulation occurs, and which obviously would completely fail for you. Clearly, though, even the better timing methods are not nearly as good as condoms.