Fingering

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I know this is probably more a female term but I want to know as a guy how can I finger? I'd like to try it. How far can you get your finger(s)? Is there a better way to do it? How do you get your finger(s) or things in there?

Anal masturbation is the term(s) you're looking for.

Don't know much of a "better" way to do it unless you've got like, a "toy" or something.

But. um. How do you do it? Lube it up and stick in there, I guess...

use a vibrator, feels much better then ur finger

Now, I don't have a prostate, and I tend to focus a little higher up when I go at it myself but I'd assume you're more interested in prostate stimulation then 'rimming' (is rimming the correct term for sphincter stimulation if it's not oral? I've heard it used both ways). Anyway, for that you should use either your finger or a small dildo. Lube yourself up (the anus is far more accessible then a lot of people seem to think xD Just go slowly if it's uncomfortable) and insert your finger to around the knuckle, from there crook your finger upwards (towards your front, in a 'come hither-ey' motion). The prostate is a couple inches in and about the size of a walnut. It might take a little searching to find so keep at it...from what I've heard it's very much worth it.

D: I wonder if you could actually do that yourself, though. Maybe I'm just inflexible, but I've always thought of fisting as a two person thing xD

Originally Posted By: RadecklI don't want to shock you too much, but some can get it in up to the elbow or beyond.It's called fisting.Ouch! OUCH is right! That WOULD hurt. And no, I've never tried it, and I don't plan on it. I've heard of this with the vagina, but not with the anus!I would advise against this because you could hurt yourself!

Originally Posted By: nesh2007I would advise against this because you could hurt yourself! You can hurt yourself having vaginal sex. You can hurt yourself having anal sex. You can hurt yourself while masturbating.Why would this be any different that you would not advise it?

I'll explain it better for those of you who may have been confused.I would advise against sticking your entire hand up your derriere (butt) because you can inflict serious injury to the rectum.VirtualStar, you do have a point; people can get hurt during vaginal sex or masturbation, but I was specifically referring to fisting the butt.

Ah, okay, got'cha!Yeah, the whole fisting idea is just outragous to me.

"And no, I've never tried it, and I don't plan on it."Personally, I wasn't going to ask, nor did I even think of asking, but, okay...

that's...disturbing I'm not sure your rectum would ever return to normal size after that kind of abuse

just go for it, it's worth it once you know how to work the prostate (not fisting)

Don't worry. I don't plan on fisting. But how can I keep one hand in the anus while I use the other to masturbate?

When I've done it, I never found it hard to keep fingering while masturbating... I mean... it's not like you have to hold something in place... it's right there!! The first time doing it, I did get overpleasured and had to ditch the fingering because I was in Heaven (not literally). It isn't easy to stimulate your prostate on your own at first... but after doing it a few times, you get the idea and aren't so bad at it... and the whole fisting subject above, yes that is very dangerous... it could tear your colon and if that were to happen, you'd bleed... and I would recommend ceasing any anal play until about a month has passed... I didn't have this happen first hand... but I do have a friend that did... not while fisting... but with a large toy... very large toy....

fisting sounds very erotic, although I wouldn't try it myself since I'm barely flexible to get myself out of that kind of situation XD