I met a girl online who lives very local to me. I intially started speaking to her on a friday afternoon (whilst in very busy in work) and we were chatting on a dating chat facility. Even tho i had only started speaking to her that morning she asked me if i wanted to go to her house, of which i did (quite late in the evening). Typically however after a couple of hours chatting we started to have sex. In which she allowed me to do the oral thing with her. I will leave out the details as thats not the point of my post. After a while of giving her oral sex she put my cock in her pussy and i felt a quite uncomfortable about putting it in there. This was my mind working overtime but neither i nor she had condoms. So i said to her that i would only put it in there if i had a condom on. To which she replied "dont worry I cant get pregnant". I personnly however did not really want to take any risk to myself or to her. As i menitoed above between the time i was chatting her online and the time i met her was just a few hours, I also should point out that alot of shops and chemists were already closed so getting any condoms was just about out of the question. She then did get off my cock a bit rapid and i felt almost that I had offended her. But i genuinelyy hand on heart could not take that degree of risk. On the other hand however she did allow me to confinue to perfom oral sex etc on her which I hope again hand on heart, may have made up for anything.
My question is really did i do the right thing in saying "wait a moment lets think about this a moment".
This leads me onto a second question also. So here goes. Whilst we were having sex she allowed me to put my finger into her anus. Of course I asked permission first to which she said yes to which i obliged and she did seem to enjoy it. As this was our first meeting I was thinking about maybe asking her if she wanted anal sex instead. But I am not sure if asking for that on a first date would be wise.
This leads me onto my second question. If a girl is willing to have a finger inserted into her anus, would she be willing to have a cock in there?
If anyone has any advice i would be most greatful.