Dilemma!!

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Not really a dilemma, but fuck it...OK, my family are going to New York at the end of this month. And I'm caught between going with them for the 3 or 4 days, or stay at home for 3 or 4 days of non-stop wild sweaty sex...Is it wrong that I would much prefer the second option? I'm young, I'll probably be able to see New York some time in the future. But of course I don't just want to stay home for the sex, I'm coming up to the end of my college semester and I don't know if anything important will be on during those few days.The tickets are already booked, we're going, but I really don't want to. But I have a feeling that my reasons for not wanting to are stupid and selfish...

Meh, I'd take the second option.

I feel like a dick for preferring the second option...

Go to NY... You can always have sex, but you don't know if you'll "probably" be able to go to NY in the future.

I agree with sdp. Go to New York. I'd ditch my boyfriend in a heartbeat if I had a chance to go to New York.

Does he "know" that he'll have another chance to have sex in the future? No, since he's not a fortune teller.I would go to NY and find someone to do what you described, OP. It's called "Best of Both Worlds."

No, he doesn "know" but chances are higher that he "will" as opposed to the chances of going to NY.

I think you should get over here. You'll probably be able to have sex many other times but I think you might not be seeing how amazing it might be to go to New York, so I wouldn't really feel like a hole for preferring the second choice when you don't know how great the first choice can be. Plus, if you come to New York you could see a lot of things. And if you're coming to New York City, then you could -possibly- see a few of us without even realizing it : )

Grr, you should be staying home and attending your college classes!

turn down a trip to fucking new york?bobbo yuor a stupid asshole.no wait... when are ya going?Id hate to go during winter, but Iv walked the streets and took in the perverse sickening bullshit shops by time square and inteh summer? Id take another trip to new york in a heart beat.the hookers, the sex shows, the buildings that reach the sky, the fun of the subway, playing good block bad block, and the fucking food, oh dear jesus christ the food.I was there alone for a few days on foot with no place to stay, mostly because I was too cheap to get a hotel. I fucked off for 3 days walking the streets exploring the city before calling my friends and crashing at thier house for a while before moving on.NY is a good time, and I knwo people there...people that are stoners, and have a large yard about an 1/2 hour outside of the city.

Well he would be going with his family!!!.I don't think him taking off to get stoned and see sex shows would go over too well, you think?

I know my opinion probably doesn't mean much, but I say buy a bottle of lotion to take with ya for some little self lovin' and go to New York! You 'might' get to go again sometime in your future, but what if you don't and you passed up on a once in a life time trip? Don't pass that up!

Screw NY, it's not that special. "Ooh look! I big building. OMG, ANOTHER big building! HOLY SHIT!!! another big building." Woopdee-friggin-do. I'd stay home.

I live in Jersey and I HATE HATE HATE new york. To me it's just dirty and i don't know why any one would go there except for museums and to work. But as i said it's just me

Originally Posted By: IneligibleGrr, you should be staying home and attending your college classes! Haha, see thats the excuse I was giving to my parents. They booked the holiday without telling me, twas a surprise of sorts. Luckily nothing important is on while I'm away, or at least that I know of. We could get something next week that is worth our entire grades!Thanks everybody for the responses, unless something really important comes up in college then I'll definitely be going. And now for the next question:What is there to do in new York? Ya know, apart from all the delightful things that Chance mentioned... I have a feeling that I'm gonna be wandering around looking at nice things I can't buy, nice drinks that I can't drink (unless I find a friendly Irish pub) and being freaked out by the tall buildings.

Why is it that everyone from Jersey hates NY and vice-versa?That's something I've noticed anyway.

Well, I don't relaly hate Jersey. Actually, I find it a good place to go and have a little fun. :T Oh well. I can see why some people would hate New York but sometimes it's just, ouch - calm down with the words.

Um, to Bob (if I may call you that), if you're going to NYC, you should check out Times Square sometime during the night. The bright lights and tall buildings may freak you out but get in one of the many taxis and just take a ride to some random bar : O You know you want to get drunk. :smile: But note that NYC is built up on advertisement. It's acutally annoying but then you get used to it.

Lmao, I'd say the Statue of Libery and Ellis Island and places like Coney Island, but, eh... Wait, did Coney Island close or something? THose of you who know it/of it, do you know?

well when I was inhigh school and for a year or so after I went on vacation with my family, while there were days that we did shit together there were days we went our seperate ways.for 2 weeks in hawaii about 89 or 90 I spent a good 4 days of that on my own doing what I wanted with a rented car. besides I only stated some good times I had there, and I could never hook bobbo up with my buddies in NY, no fucking way they would trust him if they had nto met him prior through me. the point is no matter where you go you can have a good time, and shuold he get off on his own for a bit Id bet 20 bucks he could get laid with that accent.

ooh great. Just don't come to the Bronx lol jk

Lol

No- do come to Bronx! Specifically Bronx Science during its seventh period lunch. I'll be all, ooh that must be him. And he won't know who I am amongst the rest of the school. Sure, he might scare a few people but hey, he's only in NY for a while :laughing: