i met this girl a while back and ill say this before it wasnt much of a relationship anyway i met her she had been homeschooled for a few years and she used to go to my school anyway we started talking and just kept talking about events that happend to us teachers whatever came to mind this kept going for a few weeks and eventully she asked to sit we me and my friends at our table during lunch we chrismas came up and i decided to ask her to go chrismas shopping with me at the closest mall she said sure and gave me her phone number to set up a time the time came i got ready to go and my brother drove us we had a blast and ended up eating at the foodcourt and my brother picked us up and drove her home we hung out a few times after that at her house and i thoughti was going well then when i would call to hang out or talk with her she was alwasys busy and had a lame excuse i new the signs and gave her a break anyway this draged on for a few months and we talked less and less and she still stayed at the table talking at my other friends now we dont talk anymore but i still like her i cant get over her i want to but cant sorry i wrote so much i tryed to keep it short please give me ideas to get over her and try not to be nasty about it
Cant get my mind off it
Find another girl.Oh and next time, use some periods and commas man, that was a chore to read.
Well, you had infatuation, and she did with you; but not for as long. To get over herThere is no magic bullet, there isn't much anyone can say for you to just 'click' and not care anymore. In reality, the only one who can make her get over her, is you. It's very very tough, but you have to tell yourself the reality of the situation (For the most part, you just did that in your posting) and come to the realization there will NEVER be together.In the futureAs hard as it is to come to this conclusion; most young relationships will end within a very short period of time (usually less than a year) so although in the future you shouldn't block yourself from being in relationships and enjoying them, be sure to keep your brain in charge of your heart so you aren't devastated/obsessive.