PELVIC THRUSHING

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so when my boyfriend has an erection, he likes to put it on my vagina and thrust. we are not having sex because we are waiting until marrage. but he is always wearing jeans when he has an erection. this is stupid, but the only way i can get pregnant is if he inserts it and cum's right?

Well, I'm not one of the "experts" on the forum, but I can tell you, you can't get pregnant if you're wearing something between you. (That is essentially how a condom works)

In the interest of being more informative, (as far as I'm aware) the only way you can become pregnant is through sexual intercourse. If that doesn't happen, you won't get pregnant (unless artificial insemination is your thing).

If you two like to thrust, all the more power to you. It's extremely fun.

And in case you're questioning my 'credentials' I'm 20 years old, so I'm confident I'm informed on the subject.

YAY!! thats great to know that we can thrust all we want. so even if hes naked and i have panties on? that is awesome. its a great way to help stay true until marrage,so the sexual feelings dont overpower. thanks, you seem very experienced.

so if hes naked and i have panties on, and he cum's we are still ok?

Correct. As long as it stays on the outside, you're fine. (Also, if you were thinking it, there is virtually no chance to get pregnant if you accidentally rub some on you taking them off or something.)Let me say this as well: Yes , this is a great way to stay true until marriage, etc. But realize the more you do, the more you may want to do, so it can progress fast. Be prepared if things go further than you anticipate. Feel the power to stop it if you desire, too.

awesome! yeah he likes to take my clothes off and thrust. he usually has on blue jeans, one because i think they can hide his erection better if my roommate walks in LOL!! just kidding. random, but when a guy cums ( like when i give my boyfriend a hand job) does that mean it was good?oh any thanks. we both have very good self-control and know when to stop. although we have done everything but sex. but we usually just try to play in diffrent areas, like on the couch or outside or something.

It's understandable, most guys like to remove girls' clothing. (My confession?)If he does Finish up, does that mean it was good?Well, from a guys perspective, it's hard for it to be bad. Unless you hurt him (and he'd tell you if you did) it's going to be great. You can't judge how good it was from that though. If you want to know if it was good or not, just ask him. Ask if there are certain things he likes better.

cool. oh ok so pretty much a hand job is great for guys. i wonder if he ever gets tired of it, because i do it to him almost every day. i usually just jack him off trough his pants because im too lazy to find lotion lol. like sometimes we can even be talking to someone and ill stand in front of him and grab him. i think he really likes it, and he likes the challenge of not getting caught

Well, I doubt he'll get tired of it. He may get into the routine of it, but it'll never be not-good. If you're really concerned about it getting boring, ask him if there's anything he'd like.

alrighty. well thank you! you were great help.

but, if he cums on ur panties and theyre very thin, it is possible some could go through and get to your vagina... but whasisname is probably more well-informed than me...

I'm acutally going to agree with Snitches. Where ever there is ejaculate, there's a chance of pregnancy (even if it's small, it's still a chance). If he's completely naked and you're wearing thin panties, AND he ejaculates on your vulva, there's a risk.The chance is small, but unbelieveable, crazier things have and can happen. I don't know about you, but I think it's better to eliminate all chances (if possible) than willing risk a small one. So, I think it would be safest and put your mind at ease if he uses a condom. Or he can simply ejaculate somewhere that is no where near your genitals. But be sure you or he doesn't touch his ejaculate and then touches you. That's another risky thing to do.Stay safe!

You can get pregnant if all that's between you two is a pair of panties, yes. Panties are cotton or whatever they are so that means they're pourous, they have holes basically. That's why they don't make condoms out of the same material they make panties. Condoms are latex or polyurathane, because there are no pores for sperm to seep through. Even though what you are doing is low risk, he should probably be cumming in a condom and not on your panties.

And by the way thrush is a disease, so I think the word you were looking for was pelvic "thrusting"

Yea, I'm going to sound like a dick here...but you guys ARE going to have before marriage. I wanted to wait (I'm a guy) until I was married with my first ex; that didn't work...my second ex wanted to wait till marriage, that didn't go either.Frankly the teasing that you describe is the EXACT same, and after a while, he's going to wonder how great your vagina feels around his penis, and you're going to be wondering a little too much of how good it'll feel for him to fill you up with his erection.

That is generally how shit goes down in the real world.How's the old saying go? "The road to hell is paved with good intentions."

Old folks must say that, cuz I've never heard it.

Oh fie! It's often ascribed to Samuel Johnson, but incorrectly.

ok.. well he usually catches it in his hand and then goes to wash it off. ill just make sure hes either got pants on or i have pants on. and no we wont have sex before were married. i can stop. its not my first time to play. thanks for your help!

Originally Posted By: lovelylurkerso when my boyfriend has an erection, he likes to put it on my vagina and thrust. we are not having sex because we are waiting until marrage. but he is always wearing jeans when he has an erection. this is stupid, but the only way i can get pregnant is if he inserts it and cum's right? You are correct! You can't get pregnant in the situation you described. Just be careful, as everyone else has said.

If you go back and read what everyone said, There is a small chance, but nothing major.