I don't know how to deal with my little sister. She angers me all of the time, mocking, poking me, hitting me, screwing with my stuff, has no respect for what I say, etc cetra. I am a very happy person, who loves everyone, and gets along with them. I just can't get along with her, and i want to give her a black eye. My mom has given me permission to give her one, but i would feel extremely bad afterward. She is impossible to ignore so that isnt an option. I know little siblings are annoying but she's something else. What are ways that I can... deal?... :o/
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Little sister..
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Talk to her about it?How old is she? How much older are you than she is?Eh. Try to reason with her and see how that goes. Violence won't help anything. She'll just kind of be like "wtf?" and hate you.And it's always possible to ignore something.
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I am the oldest in my family and I have one sister who is four years younger than I am.While we were growing up, I had a terrible relationship with my sister. She would do the same that your sister is doing. I would get so fustrated and upset that many times we would end up physically fighting. It was so bad that we acutally hated each other.My dad dragged me to the side one day and talked to me about my sister after another fight. I'll never forget what he told me:He said that I may not understand now, but later down in life, me and my sister are going to grow up. And if we don't stop fighting now, we will continue to hate each other later, when it may be too late to fix things. I only have one sister and if she's gone from my life, she's gone for good. He told me that there will be times in our lives that we will need each other. And if there's hate between us, then we're going to be alone. Friends come and go, but family is forever.My father also reminded me that I am her older sister, which means I have a responsiblity to protect and love my sister because (besides my mother) I am her closest female role model. What kind of message would I be sending to my sister if all I tell her is "I hate you" and showed her no love? What kind of person would she be if that's all I'd do to her?Like he told me earlier, she's going to grow up. She's going to need me when she goes through middle and high school, where kids are going to say and do things to her. And, of course, when she's an adult and moves out in the world.There's also something I learned when I got older. She and I were kids. Kids don't have the conscienceness of an adult, which means we didn't know better. My sister didn't know better but act like a kid, like taking my toys, act annyoing, and such. And I didn't know better also, so like a kid I fought and cried.So, overall, your sister will grow out of this stage of being annoying. There's nothing really you can do but teach her how to be respectful. Remember, you're her older sister. She may annoy the hell out of you, she may not listen, she may fight back, but she's still looking up to you.Alway love each other because maybe someday, you two will be the best of friends.
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Originally Posted By: katonsuiitonAnd it's always possible to ignore something. You're the youngest, aren't you, honey? Lol. I'm asking because if you have younger siblings, it's IMPOSSIBLE to ignore them. After all, they are going to live with each other for a long time.
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I like the advice your dad gave.I have given similar advice, I was the oldest of four. Ugh!BUT the little sister fits the classic narcissist/sociopath. I am not trying to do home diagnosing, but it is there, and there is little for me to do about it until she is around about 15...EXCEPT set the rules, pray she fallows, and set good examples.
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well, we are at that terrible relationship part. As am I 4 years older. I very rarely hit her and such. but there is a lot of yelling, calling names. She gos on temper tantrum's and starts hitting, throwing stuff,and screaming, I get scared. i try not to fight with her, i have tried telling her "don't do that""stop lying""i love you"ectcetra. but is ends out the same. I just GRR.i'll try harder to be nice...:0/
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Yeah, I know it's tough but try to hang in there, honey. Hopefully, she'll grow out of it.
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I kick little kittens but seriously just ignore her
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well thanks guys. I will try to learn myself and her. HelmsmaN I never looked at it that way. Ha now i have two pups that are trying to learn.:o] Three including me. I really needed for someone to help and you guys did! :oD
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Yess. very true.
well Since i was looking at it like training a puppy... Can I rub her nose in it and spank her with a newspaper?? hehe.