The other night I had to defecate and it took about an hour to finally get the damn thing out of my a-hole. I pushed and pushed but nothing was helping get, so I touched it down there to see what the hell was obstructing it and I noticed that my fecal matter was as hard as a rock and it had turned side ways instead of long way, and since it was too stiff to break it wasn't coming out my a-hole. Finall after an hour of pushing, my fecal matter came but it was bloody, I got scared because I've never seen blood on my fecal matter. Is this damaging?
It's called a fecal impaction. Although it's kind of gross you should have used your fingers and some lubricant to help get it out. The danger is tears to your anus and hemerroids. Try to get more fiber and fluids in your diet and avoid holding it in when you need to go.