ok so like me and my GF dont know why but i cant make her orgasem. one this is like we never get alot of "time" cuz were 16 and parents ya know. but ya like idk i cant make her orgasem. any ideas why? or how i can make her? thanks!
Cant make my GF orgasem
Well, you listed two reasons right there.
1) Not much alone time
2) Your age
I'm not sure what your method to help her achieve orgasm is (whether through intercourse, or through oral sex) but giving a good session of oral will bring pretty much any women to a toe-curling pleasure wave.
As far as making her climax; there are FAR too many techniques and tips for me to write here. If you've never read up on a couple of articles on how to sexually pleasure a woman, do so now.
Otherwise, your best ways to get her to have an orgasm involve a long make-out session to make her very wet and pent up, followed by kissing/touching the non-sexual parts of her body (try behind the knees, inner thighs, the waist-line etc)
Don't dive right in and whip her clitoris around and expect things to happen; play with the entire vulva, tease and kiss the outer lips, gently lick the inner ones. Lightly suck on the clitoris, maybe hum a tune? (the vibrations will be enjoyed, trust me)
Well lubricated (her vaginal fluid, or your saliva), go slow, start off with one finger, two at max; anymore could be a detractor. Whilst inside of her, rub the top of her vagina in a come-hither motion with your finger; if you're a good boy, you'll have hit the G-spot. Save this stimulation until a bit later, as she is getting closer to orgasm.
Over-all, pay attention to her body cues, relax, make sure SHE is relaxed; enjoy the flavour and scent of your woman...when you're between her legs she is the most important person in the world. Lastly, besides experience, you can also increase some of your ability by reading a lovely book, "She comes first" by Ian Kerner. It turns a good orgasm into toe-curling 'oh-my-god-the-earth-is-shaking' pleasure sessions. Cheers...
I can't wait until the next time I'm with my gf!!!!!!!!
haha wow thank you =]