I have this huge problem that I guess just got brought to my attention by my cvurrent bf. My ex I guess never really cared about this but my bf thinks its a huge part of sexual communication. During sex or oral I cant look into my bfs eyes. I always close them and when I look into his eyes it makes me like shy away I cant moan or express anything i kinda get like cold feet. I have always had a problem just looking into peoples eyes anyways, but for me this is a huge challenge. I love my bf and I do trust him.. I just am shy. so how can i fix it?
Can't look into my bfs eyes...
The best way, is to just start doing it. Even when your just hanging out together. Every time you think of it, try it, even if it is only for a second or two.
In time it will get easier.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel