Basicly ive been with my GF for the last 3-5 months, after the first 3 weeks. she told me she was late on her period.. cut a long story short. soon turns out she's knocked up,Up until 2 weeks ago she explained she wants it but. she's not 100% about it.tables have turned she's getting rid of it. infact she's booked for this friday.in this time, ive ask's to go as support to the Doc's to make sure everything is ok.an to show iam there, and also i know were we stand, on each time ive not been aloud to go, (personl reasons) which i found very wierd, untill today. she's now told me after a heated arguement. she can't give 100% it's mine. it could be her ex's who she slept with a few days prior to hooking up with me, or the my mate from work, on the one night stand..by this time iam not a happy boy,as you could understandwould anyone agree, she's looking for attention.???.to this point i have called it day with her.after her putting me into a £1000 over drawn,alot of worry and a big bill on booze, to drink to clear my head,.. but does everyone agree ive done the right thing..ive felt that the whole thing has been based on lie's... to the point on telling my mum and dad about this, as well as a few close work friends.(not her mum or dad tho)i loved her to bit's, which she knew. but the trust has gone out the window.will people agree on this??editsorry for this.. ive got alot on my mind, and iam still heated from a 2nd arguement not long ago.
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Help..have i done the right thing??
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after her putting me into a £1000 over drawnI would slap the shit out of her at this point
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Helms pretty much summed it up there. I can't see how you're the bad guy in this situation.
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I'm sorry to hear such awful news. You did the right thing by giving her to boot. But don't drink yourself stupid for something like this.
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Life's to short for such bullshit drama. While the heart may want what it wants, and you may, currently, feel bad for having gotten rid of her, a greater happiness will be found elsewhere and this can be looked on as a learning experience.
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thanks for every ones response.regards to drinks i think i may of worded that wrong in a way. well ive got away for her for a while. spoken very brief over the phone. coz she's got the doc's tomorrow. to get rid of it.still worryed about how it goes for her. which is normal.scared tho. that i feel so sorry .. that 1 thing leads to another
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Fucking exactly!no turst? you can not have a relationship with no trust and shes proven already that she can not be trusted. WHy be with someone that doesnt make life better by being with them?a mate is to help enrich your life, its onyl worth being with them if it makes life better.You cnat rely on someone else to make youhappy, but they should make shit better by being with them.This bitch obviously makes shit worse and isnt worth the energy to deal with.