I've recently been kinda wanting to see this girl for the past while, we've hit it off pretty good too. But me having a negetive mind set i always think when shes out partying theres other guys going to be all over her and stuff and thats what im afraid of (shes a pretty attractive girl). Like the other night she got drunk with one of her friends and it was just them 2 but ive asked her about this guy and she says that he likes her best ffriend, and ive talked to her bestfriend about me and her and the friend has told me that this girl is startign to like me. How can i ask her if i can trust her or whatever, i need some help!
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Can i trust her?
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dude u must not understand what im trying to say...I dont think shes a hoe at all man, im trying to see how i can ask her if i can trust her. Because obviously when shes out drinking or whatever hanging out with people theres going to be horny guys or what ever, everywhere u go, and her being a popular and attractive girl im just seeing if i can trust her not to do anything. Im not calling her a hoe at all...
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She hasnt broken my trust, but the trust i have 4 her is only building but yes, i am just suspicious for sure. And the jealousy thing is the kind of person i am, most guys will not admit it, but i easily can and yes i get jealous very easily. But in other words i guess i will just keep hangin out with her and see how things go down from there, thanks for the help i was just curious on the whole trust factor
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I agree with Helms. To ask her if you can trust her is disrespectful. She has given you no reason not to trust her, so you should do so.
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Helms has it - but you don't get it. If you're not in a relationship - u got nothing to "trust"
If u don't think you could respect her = leave her alone. If she's not dating anyone, she's got no reason to be "trusted"...
Get it? I think most girls are like most guys - looking for someone worth giving up the shallow stuff. It's easy when that happens, until then, there's no point.
Does that make sense?