So i'm sixteen and my boyfriend and i tried having sex last night for the first time. i'm not very educated in this stuff. i gave him a hand job and he seemed pretty hard then but once he put the condom on and we started he couldn't get it in and it felt soft.is it normal to have to guide the penis?i'm wondering if i'm doing something wrong.please help
Is it me?
When guys are nervous they tend to get soft; when girls are nervous they tend to tense up inside. As a result first time sex usually doesn't go very well because between the nervousness on both sides the guy finds it difficult to get in. With more practice, as the nervousness fades, it gets much better.It's always very helpful to the guy if the the girl guides his penis in.Rest assured, it's not you.