I'm tired of hearing about the rest of the world.Untill you convince every person in America to think about the world's problems, it's not gonna help me any cuz everyone else is still gonna be stuck up.Plus tho, America, Canada, Europe, Australia, and parts of Asia and South America are all wealthy countries. Africa, most of Asia, Russia, and South America are the poor places.But you want to know something? I'de rather be dirt poor and look decent where i can live a normal life than be rich and ugly.Because you know what? I know people in my school who are dirt poor but they're hot as fuck and they get tons of attention and are pretty happy people. And one more thing about the rest of the world, even in like tribes and stuff, attractivness matters too. In those tribes and places like that, they all have their standards. In some tribes, attractiveness may depend on how big of a peircing you have, or how many animals you've hunted. No matter where you go in the world, or how poor people get, always people are trying to be attractive as possible to find mates. Even animals do it.Animals will build the biggest nest, or fluff their feathers out the biggest, or make the biggest growl, or w/e they can to make sure their "the most attractive" to a female. And humans are no different.Every region has its form of whats attractive and in america, the most important thing is to have a nice face. End of story.
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And another reason i can garuntee starving people over in africa are trying to be attractive to the opposite sex too, is becuse dont you think those people agree too that when life is hell, its better to have someone to hold?Now of coarse their standards of attractive might not be as high, what they find attractive may be something as simple as having a peircing on your face or something, or braids in your hair, but im sure if thats the case, then alotta people over there have peircings and braids. Its just that america has higher standards.
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oh and if someone wants to bring up the poor people in the middle east. Lol i saw once where based on population and stuff, there's a country in the middle east where plastic surgery is performed more than anywhere in the world, because the wemon there don't get to show anything but their face, they have to cover their whole boddies in cloth, so they try to have the best faces possible. (its even worse than america over there on beauty).
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Like alotta girls at my school like really ugly guys, but its all for one reason. Those guys ALWAYS look bad-ass. all the ones that are liked are like 6 foot tall and they just have that "hardcore i just been to a metal concert" look.....and thats something i simply don't have....i have a very small body so its pretty much that im just like those wemon in the middle east, i have nothing to show off but my face.but i was talking on the phone other night to a girl i really like, and me and her are good freinds, but she only likes "hardcore" guys. Well even if i didnt get with her, ide liek to "do" something with her cuz she's that type.But I hinted at it about her, and she kept saying "well i dont think of you that way" or "we're too good of freinds" or "you never looked like the type of person who'd be interested in sex" (in other words shes saying shes not intrested in haing sex with me) and those results is what every girl ive ever tried to do anything with says to me. even if me and her barely know each other + plus she fucks all her other best freinds.I seriously cannot find anyone, and with the girls in my school, the standards arented that high. I mean there's this black kid in my class who looks like Urcle and Norbit combined, and even HE got layed. Seriously wtf?Also, there's this girl im freinds with, who is the school whore. Every single guy i know who's my freind, she's fucked them, and they say its true, and she also says its true. She has sex with people during pep rallys even. But im the ONLY guy who's ever been refused by her, and all the guys in school make fun of me for it. And ive tried more than once to do stuff with her.Like once she was to me like "im having a bad day....this weelend ima babysit some kids at these other people's house but im going to make the kids spend the night with their freinds, so i'll be there by myself, and ive been asking guys all day if they wanna come over when im there and stay the night, but no one will.."and i was like "well im not busy this weekend" and you know what she said? she said (appearantly forgetting all the sudden what she told me) "well im babysitting this weekend so i guess we can't hang out"......wtf???But yeah about the pretty on the inside/outside thing.If your nice on the inside, it gets you "just freinds" who never go out with you and plain out refuse and insult you if you hint at it, or even if you hint at a one night stand.Being nice on the outside gives you great freinds, lots of attention, a chance with alot of girls, and a good fuck whenever you need it, plus you get invited to partys and mess ciz you look cool, and basically you get a great life.And even if your a asshole, people still beleive your "nice"Like my best friend, he's a asshole, but somehow people think he's nicer than me, just cuz his attention whores say so.
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Well, looks to me like you got it all figured out. Seems like you'll never ever do anything with a girl.Seriously, though, with that attitude of yours, how do you expect to get a girlfriend? And I'm starting to think the only reason you want a girlfriend is so you can fuck somebody.Why would you want to fuck the girl that's been passed aruodn the school? Does that make you cool?I will never understand this need to have sex to fit in =/
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Originally Posted By: Someone youngyou never looked like the type of person who'd be interested in sex" "What do i look like an alien to you?! Of course i'm interested in sex!"
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If all you're looking for is a girlfriend, then that's all you'll think about when you get one.
Girls don't dig being titles or trophies.
Lay back and play the field a little. If a girl rejects you, there's more to choose from. Don't let it worry you, some girls just aren't worth your time.
Don't play into the "I must worship Women" trap. Just be decently nice and be yourself. Don't adjust any of your normal routine for a girl you aren't even committed too.
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Religion is a unrelenting subject. I'm Muslim and from what I've learned, religion kind of teaches what one can do for God, not what God can do for you. So basically, everything you do, you must do it yourself and not rely on anything else. You can't sit there and think that some external force is going to dictate your life correctly. If there was such a thing, there wouldn't be world hunger, murders or anything cruel in the world nor would there be overnight millionaires, inventions or anything spectacular/positive in the world either. The reason why these things occur in the world is because of people themselves.While I do beleive that there is some kind of "God" or creator, I think he/she/it just watches over. If an analogy is needed, it would be like playing The Sims without ever forcing anybody to do something. In my opinion, religion was created for motivation; it's like a fad/gang/etc, a group with set rules to follow by, but in this case the rules are made to add a positive way of living life. Who knows if all those prophets like Jesus, Muhammad or Moses were actually prophets or just fakers because I'm pretty sure humans back then were no different genetically than humans now, so who is to say that humans couldn't have lied back then. But it isn't like we need a religion to become something. There are plenty of non-religious people and even atheists who live life to the fullest.So my point is this: Don't think that religion/"God" will do something for you. Just use your religion's positive information to motivate your life such as don't commit adultery and just live life the way you want. Go to religious services once in a while, it has some meditation-like effects and you can get confidence from the words of religion to help you get back on track.
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@thesoloi really like your veiw on things...ive honestly always thought the muslim religion seemed to make alot more sense than christianity, and it really does seem like god only "watches over"...because my best friend...who has like the perfect life...people always telling him he's hot, a beautiful gf who has undying love for him, her parents always giving him free money because "he looks like someone who should have a successful future" (in other words he's so hot that grown ups think it too and give him money) and he lives with his girlfriends family for free, cuz he moved outt his house, and he loves his life, and it really is great, and its sad that the only thing he has to worry about is getting a job everynow and then, not because he has to pay bills or anything, becuase he doesn't, he said he just "feels depressed if he doesnt work somewhere because he feels lazy" and its like wtf...yeah its good not to be lazy, but that is the ONLy thing that depresses him and he gets REALLY depressed about it, and im like wtf its ok to want a job but you have such a great life that you dont really even need one.And he's aethist....but why his life is so great, and i can connect every point to this, is becaise he's hot in a general standard.His gf who has undying love for him, who's responsible for giving him confidence, breaking his virginity, giving him a place to live, and being the love of his life that causes him to be happy, only "started taking to him" because she thought he was hot. Although she said that over time, she started to love him for his personalit, she said she would not have started talking to him if he was really ugly, and thats the same with every girl, unless they are insanely ugly or preppy, 2 things i wont go for.My parents, his gf's parents, and his best friend's parents give him free money and other things, not because he needs them, just because he asks, and they all feel "so" sorry for him if he doesnt have 1 thing that he wants, just because everyone feels so sorry for hot people who are sad, but no one ever cares about ugly people who are sad. people just ignore their wants and needs. my parents even care about my best freind more than me...its just so fucked up....whenever he asks for money and mess, people say no, and all he does is put on a sad puupy face, and people give in...and i do the same thing and it never works for me, even if what i want is a serious issue...and his gf, he treats her like shit, and when she rarely gets mad, all he does is touch her and hug her and act "sexual" and all the sudden she falls into his looks and gets over it...its so gay...
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and its sad that the only thing he has to worry about is getting a job everynow and then, not because he has to pay bills or anything, becuase he doesn't, he said he just "feels depressed if he doesnt work somewhere because he feels lazy" and its like wtf...yeah its good not to be lazy, but that is the ONLy thing that depresses him and he gets REALLY depressed about it, and im like wtf its ok to want a job but you have such a great life that you dont really even need one.
Again, please don't compare your depression to anyone elses. You're trying to find a way to make your friend seem like he doesn't (or even shouldn't) have a vaild reason to be depressed while you do. His reasons for being depressed has no less value than yours and vice versa. We all have reasons to be depressed, even if it doesn't make sense to you.I'm similar. If I'm not working or going to school, I feel like my life has no meaning. Like, I'm having the easy life, but I'm not doing anything to deserve it. Yes, there are times when I'm lazy as fuck, but eventually that feeling comes along and I don't like it.
Even the people who have the biggest smiles may have something that makes them depressed. The key is how we carry ourselves. (I'm sure the others have been telling you this)
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In contrast, when I'm at school I feel pretty meaningless. I like to work because I like to see things happen. When I'm at school, I feel like I'm wasting my time, listening to someone talk, same schedule every day, day in day out, so that a number between 0 and 100% will show up on my computer. Very unfulfilling. The school system failed me I think. Getting an A has never meant much.
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Yup, the reason why I don't like going to school. There are times when I get that empty feeling about it. But what can I do? I just gotta keep going.
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I actually do think people who can't find a gf/bf because of reasons they were born with have a better reason to be depressed than people who get fired from their job because they are lazy and then sulk about it.The main point of life is to find a mate and reproduce. The main point in life isn't to work the hardest you can. Most people are happy as long as they have someone to share love with and make enough money to live comfortably, and while your a kid, you have no reason to work really unless its at school.So yeah. There's pretty much no reason anyone can't find a job unless they're lazy, but theres plenty of reasons that people can't find gfs/bfs because of things they can't help. SO yeah. Being ugly to the point you can't find a girlfriend i think is much worse than not working because your lazy.
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Quote:I actually do think people who can't find a gf/bf because of reasons they were born with have a better reason to be depressed than people who get fired from their job because they are lazy and then sulk about it.I hope someday soon, you'll realize that's not true at all. Quote:The main point of life is to find a mate and reproduce. The main point in life isn't to work the hardest you can. Most people are happy as long as they have someone to share love with and make enough money to live comfortably, and while your a kid, you have no reason to work really unless its at school.That's acutally a matter of opinion. I can assure you there's single people out there who are much happier being single, than married or with somone. And the meaning of life has no universal definition. It varies from person to person. To me, the point in life isn't just to have kids. To me, there's much more than that. Quote:There's pretty much no reason anyone can't find a job unless they're lazy, but theres plenty of reasons that people can't find gfs/bfs because of things they can't help.You can very much have a mate. It doesn't matter how you look. You just need to change your attitude. Although, I know that's a lot easier said than done.
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How about people who are not working because the company shut down and moved to mexico for cheap labor and left them high and dry after 15 years on the job and no retirement or income and a fucking house payment and kids to deal with?How about the fact that we are in a recession and jobs are hard to come by? How about that hb-1 visa that fucks a lot of qualified schooled people out of jobs because the immigrants form india are willing to work for far far less than the americans and they get the jobs ?How about handicapped people that cant perform jobs that pay shit because some drunk fucking bastard hit them with their car and took away their chance to perform the job they had been and now cant make shit for money because they cant perform the work they are trained in?There are hundreds of situations that keep people from working and they are not just fucking lazy.Ill take no fucking Gf over no income any day of the week.Someone young, hmmmm... your name sums it up, young, uneducated,no life experience, no idea o how the world works or what it takes to make it.Your response is the biggest pile of shit Iv seen since some idiot suggested drinking olive oil prevents aids when ya suck dick.