Okay.. so.. for the longest time, my girlfriend didn't want me fingering her, just rubbing her, because she wanted to save penetration for when we have sex. I thought that was a bad idea, because then she wouldn't be used to it at all, and I thought she should at least have something to get used to.
BUT.. a while ago, it happened accidentally and she loved it. Ever since then, she practically begs me to finger her.. but that first time, she was in this very weird mood after discovering it didnt hurt that much. A long time ago she told me that she ahd reason to believe she may have been molested in her childhood, and I THINK that she may have been upset that the lack of pain means someone 'experienced her' before..
Do you think that that could have been her concern, and if you do, do you think it may be true? Or could it just be that her hymen may have broken during her dance classes, and there's nothing there to really break and cause pain?
I really dont know if I want to ask her.. it's a very touchy subject and I dont want to make her upset