Sex and unretraction

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Hey again :smile: Well now its perfectly easy to get my foreskin back while flaccid, still having some issues with it while im hard though... I cant really seem to get it back beyond 3/4 down my head without it feelin very very tight. When im erect though, it doesnt go down my penis at all, the end of my foreskin is near enough at the top of my penis so only a small 1cmx1cm ish bit of head can be seen...

Is this going to affect me in any way when having sex?.. I've read that putting on a condom while unretracted could cause some issues but is there anything i can do? I don't know if my frenulum is too short or not, im still testing each day how far i can get my foreskin down the head when erect...

Help plssss !

Originally Posted By: sekretWhen im erect though, it doesnt go down my penis at all, the end of my foreskin is near enough at the top of my penis so only a small 1cm x 1cm bit of head can be seen...Is this going to affect me in any way when having sex?.. I've read that putting on a condom while unretracted could cause some issues but is there anything i can do? I don't know if my frenulum is too short or not, im still testing each day how far i can get my foreskin down the head when erect... Help plssss ! You're worrying your kit into a twist mate. There are many boys and men who go their whole life with a tight foreskin and function quite well. They have sex, father children, and enjoy the odd wank.It isn't necessary to be able to retract your foreskin to put on a condom. That bit about pulling your foreskin back to put it on is only for blokes whose foreskin doesn't stay in place over their knob. If you're going bareback then put some lube on your foreskin, much the same as a cut boy has to. It will make entry and penetration easier for both you and your partner.And of course you already know, I hope, that a wank with your foreskin forward is absolutely brill.

Originally Posted By: Christiaan...a wank with your foreskin forward is absolutely brill. What does that mean?

so some say i HAVE to and some say it isnt an issue? i dont know whats correct...

A properly functioning foreskin is able to be fully retracted with an erection. As was mentioned, if it doesn't fully retract then you run the risk of getting it stuck behind the head or tearing during sex. That's the bottom line.

appreciate the help... If im going to try and get it all the way over when erect im pretty stuck... I think that my frenulum is the thing stopping me gettin my foreskin any further when erect. I have no issues at all when flaccid but when erect i think its my frenlumum stopping me...how can i tell if my frenulum is the thing hindering me? I don't want to push it so it hurts incase it tears so without this is there anyway to tell if my frenulum is too short?If it is then what are my options?

You're not going to cause tearing by pushing it yourself. That would be pretty hard to do. You would feel pain way before that happened. If the frenulum is indeed too short, there is a simple operation called a frenuloplasty which basically just cuts the frenulum allowing movement of the foreskin. Pretty simply procedure.

so im pretty much safe to push the foreskin until i start to feel pain?

Pain is natures way of telling you to stop.

I found this website with info on Frenuloplasty, I will be undergoing this procedure sometime next year.http://www.male-initiation.net/frenulum/frenuloplasty/index.html

It was interesting to see the method of tying the frenulum as an alternative to frenuloplasty for frenulum breve.