I've been seeing a girl for about 4 months now. I'm really in love with her and serious about her. I'm 20 and she is 23. I think she feels the same way about me. We started having sex about a month after we met, we had sex 3 or 4 times a week. We both live with our parents as we make our way through the college hoops. Once we started having sex she explained that she had never had an orgasm other than giving herself one, no guy had ever been able to do it for her. Shortly after I made her orgasm going down on her, then as we started to "learn" each other I made her orgasm during sex. I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it, but it seems that after that point we pretty much stopped having sex, a time would come up that we normally would have sex and she would not be interested. That was almost 2 months ago and I think we've had sex 2 times since. She has shown NO signs of losing interest in me otherwise and several times I made it pretty clear that I was interested in sex. She just doesn't seem to make herself available for sex anymore, any time we have the opportunity (it was usually at either of our houses when nobody else was home) she seems to be busy. Its like she would rather be cleaning up the house than having sex with me. Am I sex hungry if I think having sex 3 times a week or more is normal?? I hate bringing this up to her because then I feel like I come across as wanting her only for sex when I know I am in love with this girl and I just want to "love my lover". I tried going down on her today but she stopped me, for no apparent reason. Wasn't the first time either.
Whats going on here??
Something I feel I should note: Is it possible this is health related? I think I recall her saying she was anemic back in high school. Could something be having a negative effect on her sex drive? She needs TONS of sleep (like 10 hours a night) and she is pretty much ready to fall asleep every night about 8:00, and she gets up without fail at 7 every morning. She also seems to come down with colds and fevers fairly often.