look i get made fun of at school alot so i been thnkin of talkin to my parents about switchin schools or mybe a boarding school or prep boarding school please tell me wethr this is a good idea or not and if u live at one please tell me how it is
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I hve prob at school!!!!!!!!
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boarding school is fun, but thats only cause I'm one of the popular kids :smile: and everything is made easy for me lol
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evrythng i get called names and picked on so yea how r u pop
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ah yes I know that feeling
popular cause all the girl at school think I'm hot -_-" lol and just made friends with the right people
Have you talked to teachers about a bullying problem?
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yea i go to a school with bad teachers and bad principles
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my school is the closest thing next to being a prison. but I survive because of my peoplez that keep me going and that one teacher that just so happens to like me. sorry I never understood the popularity thing. it kind of made no sense to me. If you have a group of friends that you can always hang out with and always be comfortable no matter what the situation you're pretty good to go. And maybe find some other things to preoccupy your time. If you find something you're good at maybe people would favor you more? I dunno. I play soccer and for some reason guys think thats "hott". They need to get off it, I do it for fun. And the fact that we actually win games helps. I know where you're coming from though. I used to get made fun of all the time about everything. Like ridiculously. And I used to get into fights because people thought it was ok to step up to me like they were all big and bad just because their friends were around. Like stupid air-head girls. But you just have to be more assertive if that's the right word. Show them you're not one to be messed with. And then just ignore it. I usually treat my "enemies" with kindness and respect. They HATE that. It's so funny though. You could try that but it doesn't work for everybody.
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k thnks
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i really wanted to switch schools a while ago, but thats not the best way to solve your problemslook, really what you have to do is 'recreate' yourself, your imageits not easy tho, if your up to it you have to tell yourself your confident and act that way.middle school for me was not tooo great, wasnt all to popular, not really at all, i was quite nerdythe first day of freshman year i told myself i was going to make friends and act confident, and i did. I made friends with one group, than another, than another, and soon i was friends with alot of people, keep in mind before this i wasnt well liked, like you might be. today, its sophomore year and im one of the most popular kids in my grade, and i thank myself everyday for not running away and starting all over again, because sometimes it wont work out like you thought it might
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bullying will normally occur in most schools ?are the certain things the bully's pick on you for or are there any trends in there behavior ?if you can't go to your teachers maybe go to your mum and ask her to go to the teachers.What about your other friends do they suffer the same problem.The best advice i can give about bullies as long as the bullying is mild is to ignore them , i know this isn't always easy but they do get bored if they feel they aren't getting any reaction.
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Iv said it a million times, Ill say it again and again and again.FUCING STOP putting up with it.the next time someone lays a hand on you bust them in the fucking throat. ar you willing to go through the rest of your life picked on and spit on and looked down upon?always finding someone else to fight your battles? running to a teacher or your mommie si not going to help your situation, its only going to make it worse, fucking deal with it.noone really wants ot get hit, thast why they fuck with people smaller than them and even then its only with those that wont fight back. stand the fuck up and fight back, even if you get your ass kicked atleast you have some god damned respect, if peopel know your willing to fight back they wotn fuck with you because they dont want to be in a fight they jsut want to look tough and have peopel be afraid of them.Iv been through that shit, I ws the skinny picked on kid in grade school, then I started fighting back, it doenst matter how many people ther are, it doesnt matter how big they are, anyone can be beat. I learned to fight, foung out I can take a hell of a punch and that getting hit is not nearly as bad as you think its going to be.by high school none fucked with me, aside from the 12th graders when I was in 9th.I didnt put up with thier shit either, fuck em, they told me freshman innitiation, sing a song with your pants down what ever... I told themn to go fuck themselves, I got pushed, I hit the fucker inthe throat, square in teh adams apple, his buddies beat my ass, put me in a garbage can and kicked me down the stairs, I got out and went right back to the top to fight all of them. Noone wanted to fuck with me after that, a year later I was ina fight in teh hall with a bunch of cowboys who spit chew on my back when I walked past, I jsut turned around adn hit the biggest mother fucker I coudl see laughing. while fighting him some asshole was screamign to stop and grabbed me by the back of my hair so I turned around and swung.the guy was huge, like 7 foot, and my principal, I was barely over 4 foot tall, I popped him full force in the nut sacka nd sent him to the ground and then told him to keep his fuckign hands off me and walked out of school for the rest of the day. WHen I came back I was called tot eh office and arrested and led out in hand cuffs for assaulting the principal, did a 3 day suspension, and noone ever fucking bothered me again. If you fight back, if you stand up like you got a pair, that picked on shit goes away, noone likes a weak coward, take fucking charge show them your not a coward and you you will stand up for yourself. after that not only will peple not fuck ya around, but you get some respect, and some people will start taking you seriously, after that you may even beone of the popular kids in the school, but some weaklittle bitch who doesnt fight back and lets people walk on them, they will never be popular or have any of the shit hatt kids want, girls, dates, to be one of hte cool people....trust me, its better to have your ass kicked and walk out with soem respect than it is to take it and be shit on for life.people will treat you jsut as badly as you let them, thats all of life, not jsut school, so stop letting htem treat you like shit.
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k thnks i still would like to switch though
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When I was a Freshman in High School, I moved to a different state.
I thought to myself: A perfect way to start over, and make things better than my crappy life in West Virginia
If anything, it was worse in my new school. I had ONE friend for 2 years. No one else would give me the light of day. If anything, people hated me for being new.
Moral of the story: Changing schools won't fix a damn thing. The only way to make things better is to change yourself.
Running away is awfully easy to do. It's also the weakest.
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plus theres a $100 - $500 for each fight that ur in and u hve to go to jail fom anywere from 1hr to a day and night
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I would consider switching schools. It isnt easy though. I switched schools 3 times in highschool and it was rough on me.
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i dnt hve othr schools close i live in a lil town
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So then, why the heck did you bring up the idea of switching schools???
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There should be a catholic school that you can get bused to. I wasnt catholic and went to one
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k but i ment boardin school
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you said switching schools or boarding school.I just gave you a cheaper option
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the closest catholic school is in st.louis wich is like a 2-3 hr drive