So, I've tried masturbating before (17 by the way) and well, I don't really feel anything. I fantasize and get comfortable and all, but when my fingers start exploring down there it's not like, oh wow I like that spot. It's more like.. okay.. so... Even when I rub my clit it doesn't feel that great, at least it doesn't feel super sensitive. Usually I get bored after a few minutes and just stop. I don't really get aroused when I do it because there's no feeling that I really need to get off, but sometimes I get wet. It's just.. ah, not working?On a side note, and I've no idea if this has to do with the problem or not but I thought I'd say it anyway, I've never been in a relationship with a guy. I'm incredibly shy around guys. Never kissed or anything. Could my lack of any intimacy with the opposite sex have something to do with this?
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That's possible, I dunno as for me, masturbation really doesn't feel like much of anything till I cum. Though I'm not a girl, so I wouldn't know exactly what you mean.However, if you were circumcised as a female, you will not feel very much if any pleasure for sexual activities. At least, so I've heard. because they cut into some sensitive part or something which kills off nerves or something. I believe this was used in the biblical times so people would only have sex for children not for pleasure.But don't quote me on any of that.
Originally Posted By: TheFallenLightHowever, if you were circumcised as a female, you will not feel very much if any pleasure for sexual activities. At least, so I've heard.You mean male, right? To the OP: When you masturbate, are you "in the mood"? The tricky thing about females is that we take a bit more time to get aroused. If you're not feeling into it, then it's going to get boring fast. I'm not sure if your lack of intimacy with guys is a factor but it may also be your level of horniness. Everyone's level will go up or down from time to time and perhaps you're in your low point.
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Female circumcision??? You do know that this is only done by a very few Muslim and African cultures right?