Hey, this is my first post on these forums, I came here to ask this.About a year ago i began stretching my forskin as i could not get it over the head. After a few months i was succsesfully able to get it over my head relatively comfortably, although i can still feel tightness when i get larger erections (i have to pull the skin back myself, it stays forward when i get an erection and dont move it myself). Usually, to masturbate i use the foreskin, i hold the foreskin and move it forwards and backwards over the corona of the head to achieve orgasm, everything is fine when i do this and there is no uncomfortability once i get going. However, when wearing a condom the foreskin stays retracted and although it is still quite tight there is not too much uncomfortability when masturbating with lube (im a virgin lol, only 15) However when i come to ejaculate, due to the tightness i believe, its quite uncomfortable and the orgasm really isnt enjoyable and much less "powerfull", almost painfull. As during sex the foreskin stays retracted under the condom, it will feel like this everytime i ejaculate during sex. Is this a problem? Is there anything i can do to make ejaculation whilst foreskin is retracted more comfortable? Should i just keep stretching? At the moment when i have an erection and i pull the skin back, it stays in place but it is all bunched up just under the head and i cannot get it any further as its too tight and the frenulum wont allow it, i dont think this is beacause my penis is too small either (nerly 7").Any help will be much appreciated, sorry about the longness. =D
When Retracted, Painfull Ejaculation
Welcome to A2A, Tom88!I think you want to keep stretching a bit more. It's possible the frenulum is a bit short, but that's hard to tell until the foreskin is looser.Perhaps your penis grew a bit bigger than the foreskin. But skin grows easily when stretched.
I know this is a few months old, but my personal experience was somewhat similar to yours Tom88, so maybe this can help.When I was your age over a decade ago, my foreskin was also too tight. I could retract it when flaccid but not when erect. I tried a few times to retract it and then wait for an erection to see how tight it was and it would hurt like hell because both the circumference and my frenulum were too small. It also wouldn't help since the tightness made my erection stronger and thus stretched things ever more, though I was lucky that nothing ever tore up.Masturbating in that state required plenty of lube and lead to painful orgasms because of the tightness of the skin, and weak ejaculations (again because of the tightness).I never consciously stretched my foreskin on a regular basis, though I would masturbate retracted with lube on a semi-regular basis. It wasn't until last year that I realized that my foreskin had gradually come stretched enough that I can now retract it while erect, and can even move it over the corona to masturbate while using lube.In short, I don't have any magic solution for you except to say that with enough regular and careful stretching, you can greatly increase your comfort until you can masturbate with a condom and even ejaculate without pain.Anyway, good luck!
Sounds like you got whats called frenulum breve, normally your skin should pull all the way back with no extra folds of skin around the frenulum when you are completely hard. Stretching didn't work for me and is not alway effective for this condition. You may need to get steroid cream from the doctor or minor surgery.
another thing to try if you got a condomania is to buy pleasure plus condoms. They have more space around the head which might make it more comfortable.