I've most often heard that when girls give head-after the first few times or so-they become comfortable enough to swallow their man's sperm instead of spitting it out or not even allowing the mess near their mouths. I've also heard-mainly from other posts on this website-of how much guys love it when a girl swallows, but when my boyfriend & i first started giving oral sex, he would always push me away right before he blew. Despite how it might taste, i still wanted to try swallowing & the other night as he was just about to cum refused to raise my head off of his penis when he tried to push me up. I thought, hey this might really turn him on & swallowed the cum without as much as a grimace. Instead of giving me a look of intense satisfaction, i was met with a look of disgust. He told me i "didn't have to do that" and basically implied he didn't want it done again. I was a little confused by his negative reaction, considering i enjoyed the feeling of him shooting his warm sperm into my mouth and the fact he didn't although many guys find it incredibly sexy/erotic/whatever you want to say, and was wondering if anyone else has ever had this sort of problem.
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Swallowing rejected?
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wow,dunno why he has a problem with it.it would make me feel closer to a girl,and accepted by her,you know.not everyone wants to swallow my jizz .well,i guess you gotta respect his boundaries.
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I swallowed the very first time I gave my boyfriend head. He loved it and still does, although now depending upon its taste I either swallow or spit. But in response to your question: Normally my initial reaction would be to guess that your bf may not be comfortable enough with you to let you ingest his fluids--but you've had sex, so that theory's out. The only thing I can think of is that maybe he is self-conscious. I'd suggest you talk to him about it and see what his embarrassment stems from (if there is any). Best of luck and let us know how it turns out.
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Perhaps the thought of tasting his own semen really grosses him out, and because you swallowed, he won't kiss you. He didn't ask you to brush your teeth or use mouthwash?
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im sure he's comfortable around me, i mean we've seen each other naked and have had sex who knows how many times, but he has always been reluctant to eat me out or anything...i think the idea of ingesting bodily fluids seems gross to him or something like that...he didnt ask me to brush my teeth afterwards or anything, only suggested i get something to drink...he seemed to think the taste was bothering me and didn't want me to be "uncomfortable" i suppose...what confused me was that he seemed more concerned for my sake and that made him not want me to try swallowing again
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tell him you wanna ,that you love the feeling it gives you when he does it.he may thnk you dont like it,but are doing casue it's done in porn etc.