So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. We have been friends since 4th grade (both 12th grade now) but we stopped talking in 7th/8th, then we talked again in 9th and not really again until this year.We really started to get to know each other this year and it is insane how much we have in common. Not only do we have almost everything in common, but we share similar past and home life so we can relate to each other. This girl seriously seems like my other half. Anyway tonight we started to go a bit farther than usual. Tonight i rubbed her vagina, and she ended up giving me a handjob. She had to stop me from penetrating her with my fingers because it hurt her too bad. I have pretty small fingers, im not that big of a guy im only 5'4 so my question is what can i do to make it more comfortable for her? We decided next time we do "stuff" i will let her guide me on what to do so it is comfortable for her. But is there anything i can really do except just take it slow? Neither of us were nervous, we are very comfortable around each other and had no problem laying in my bed close to naked.We are both still virgins, but she has been fingered before but that was 3 years ago, so is she just tight because its been so long? Because im sure all of her past boyfriends had bigger fingers than me, i know for a fact one of them did, because i know him. So i guess in short my question is, is she this tight because she hasnt been touched there in 3 years, and what can i do to make it more comfortable other than just take it slow?
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Originally Posted By: MMAfighter90So i guess in short my question is, is she this tight because she hasnt been touched there in 3 years, and what can i do to make it more comfortable other than just take it slow? No, she's tight because that's how the vagina was designed. It's an elastic muscular canal. In other words, if something were to be inserted, the vagina will expand. And if there's nothing there, it will contract again where the walls will be touching each other.However, mental stress can add to a girl being tight. If she's nervous or uncomfortable, her body will tense and, if you try anything, it may hurt her.Keyword: FOREPLAY!!
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Well i dont think she was nervous, because she told me she felt 100% comfortable with me, and she isnt the lying type, if she wasnt comfortable she would have told me.Also we made out and did "other stuff" for about an hour or so before we got "down there" so maybe it was something else, im not sure.Anyway thanks for the info Star.
try some lube honey.
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