So this is my dilemna.
I have really big inner labia that show to the outside of my outer labia. The ends of them are purple too. I know this is normal, but I am still so self concious like I will be judged.
Well I am in college now and some my friends will fool around with guys when we go out on weekends (like oral and fingering). The thing is I NEVER do bc Im scared someone would notice my inner labia were so big and say something or embarass me really bad. I know its best to do things with someone you love, and I am still a virgin, but I am horny and I want to get some too (for my own satisfaction, not bc my friends are doing it)! I wouldnt have intercourse with someone I didnt love, but I would like to get some action in other ways . I dont want to be inexperienced forever and Im already 21! Im not even prude or anything like that, Im just so scared. I feel like a freak of nature.
So I guess my question is do most guys notice if they are fingering a girl with really big inner lips??
Has anyone ever had any experience like this?
Sorry if this post is stupid, but this seriously makes me so self concious to do anything!
I have a problem
So this is my dilemna.
Your post is not stupid at all!
I have fingered a few girls, and I have noticed that, but it didn't bother me, as long as you and the guy have fun, thats all that matters!
Lots of men find big inner lips to be very attractive.
Guys may notice but it's unlikely they will be thinking anything except for "Score I'm getting some action"....
Or what ever it is guys say these days
They aren't as critical of your body as you are
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The issue is not your labia as much as it is your thought and feelings. You are limiting yourself by thinking the way you do. You seem to want sexual contact, and not want it at the same time. So of course that will not only confuse you but whoever your potential partner may be. Decide how far you're willing to go, then just learn to relax, and don't worry about your labia so much. Like someone else said, they're sexy to alot of men.
From my end, as a guy: I can tell you in full confidence, as long as everything "downstairs" is still female, I really don't care.
I'd recommend you take the same point of view. If someone is so picky as the the specific size of certain parts are...then you probably shouldn't let them touch you, because they might have something.
That's what I say.
most guys will not care and the rest will think its insanely hot
as long as you are comfortable and confident with yourself you will have a great time. think of it from a guys perspective, he could be thinking "oh does she think i'm small, does she notice i bend over one way, does she not like that i am circumcised?" etc etc. just be comfortable with yourself and you'll be fine
personally i'd think its hot
personally, "fat pussies" are sexy, they increase pleasure because they wrap around the dick so much more and it feels great,
but in all honesty, you dont think a guy is going to pull down your underwear, see u, then run out the room going "SHE HAS A BIG INNER LABIA!!!" to be honest, more than 50% of men dont even know where a g spot is... all they are going to see is a pair of juicy, big lips, waiting to be licked, fingered, rubbed and how ever farther ur willing to go... BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE!!! lol... and have fun...
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I agree, theres no problem with having big lips. I've heard (but cannot testify to) that bigger lips are more pleasurably because they grips the penis and pull on the clitoris when the lips are tugged by insertion.
Seriously, it ain't no thang.
I (and a lot of other guys I know) absolutely love big labia.
More fun to suck on, and cool to watch as they envelop my manhood!!!